Christening Etiquette: Can my DD wear red for her christening?

[WorkingMummyNow]

If not, why not?
And, anyone know of any other christening dos and don'ts?

Well part of the traditional christening ceremony mentions a white garment, although some people would exchange a white bib or similar at this part of the service. It is a symbol though, and quite significant, so I think it might look a bit ODD - why would you want to break away from the traditional white?

er, I think I answered you on your other thread

I still think no.

and what denomination?

My DS wore navy trousers and a navy & red patterned jumper (he was 3 months old) - no-one was upset or bothered in the slightest.

Hmm I can't find an official answer although if you are Roman Catholic you will need some sort of white garment for the part of the ceremony which involves that (and some high Anglican churches repeat similar words).

The white is symbolic of purity / rebirth (obviously) and also I think is supposed to reflect the "outfit" of the transfigured Jesus which was "whiter than white" or sommat .

I would imagine that some churches would not baptise a child dressed in a bright colour, so I would definitely check with the priest - but overall, I think that it would seem very tasteless and a bit like you didn't really know what you were doing (if that doesn't sound totally offensive ). 'tisn't really a day for fashion that screams LOOK AT ME for anyone.

Make sure any guests who aren't used to church understand that they can't take pictures during the service (clergy will often pose for one after if you ask). And let them know when in the service would be a good time to pop out for a smoke if they an't manage otherwise!

Yes I suppose if it was something fairly normal-looking it might be ok

I am imagining some sort of red meringue horror though TBH

yes good point

cameras a BIG faux pas

Ours was middle-of-the-road C of E - as mp says, RC and high C of E might be more bothered.

A red "nice" outfit would be one thing, but a red "Christening dress" would be as odd as a red wedding dress - yes people do it, but it's generally considered a bit OTT.

Some churches will speak to the families at the start of the service to say "feel free to wander about" or "there's an area at the back with toys". If you are doing some preparation before the service, take the chance to ask the clergy what it would be useful for your guests to know - is there a handy loo for small children if required? Let people know as much as you can beforehand to avoid chinese whispers along the pews...

Ask your vicar/priest . It their church after all, so only polite.