last weekend I had a (very rare!) lie-in whilst dh took dd out for the morning.
in my dream i spoke to my grandma (who is 91, very much alive, well and living alone in sheltered accomodation) who told me that if she died her funeral would be on 17th February (this year) at 2pm, but that hopefully she would live and we could cancel the funeral.
when i woke up i was relieved to notice that 17th feb is a sunday when funerals can't take place.
since then she has been in and out of hospital with heart problems (shes always ahd heart problems and has survived many heart attacks in the past of various intensities) and last night was admitted again as her heart was racing. she is still in hosital today but is doing fine and expected to come home either today or tomorrow.
so i am scared that perhaps she will die, perhaps at 2pm on sunday. am i being stupid to think this? if she hadnt been ill recently i probably wouldnt have given it another thought...
my dad (her son) is 65 and is having chemo for lung cancer. i havent told him of my dream but i have tried to get him to go and visit her (we are in devon, she is in manchester) but he does not appear overly worried and cant realistically up and go to manchester in the middle of chemo unless he has to. should i tell him about the dream? or should i tell mum in the hope she can get him to go and visit, or should i just leave well alone and hope that it was just a dream and has no more significance than that....
thanks