Hi, I am in need of a bit of advice. My Dc's GM died 3 years ago they attended the funeral in Ireland, but now they are being asked to go to anniversary mass in September. Dd is reluctant to go as it will mean missing 3 days of school as she is in Y11 and has missed plenty of school already this year. Her Dad is putting pressure on them to go. It's ok for Ds to go but not really for Dd. How important are these masses please? BTW I am not with their Dad anymore.