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Can I take communion in CofE church if I was confirmed in RC church?

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goldenchandelier · 25/12/2019 00:25

Going to a new CofE church for Christmas.
Haven't taken communion for a long time and very nervous don't know why. I was confirmed in a RC church.

Have been going to CofE church as dd was christened there due to dh being CofE and it being a simpler process for us for dd to be CofE. I was raised going to a RC church and only really know their customs.
Sorry for any ignorance.

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LuluJakey1 · 25/12/2019 00:28

Who would know or be bothered?

HomeAlone39 · 25/12/2019 00:29

Can you ask DH?

PhoebeFriends · 25/12/2019 00:29

Yes you can

PhoebeFriends · 25/12/2019 00:32

The vicar may even state this during the service. Our local church says if you are a member of another church (Christian denomination) you are welcome to take communion.

goldenchandelier · 25/12/2019 00:34

Ok so I took it in our last CofE church and there we had to kneel to take it ive only ever taken it standing up previously.
The vicar really weirdly looked down at me and said my full name as if checking that was my name and didn't do it to anyone else so now I'm paranoid I did something wrong. He is aware I'm RC. Dh isn't really religious but we had dd christened CofE anyway.

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PorpentinaScamander · 25/12/2019 00:34

Yep. Anyone can take communion in our church, even non confirmed people. I think the 'rules' about this were relaxed a few years ago. Or maybe I just have a super chill Vicar.

goldenchandelier · 25/12/2019 00:35

Thanks hopefully I was ok then. Want to take it tomorrow but don't want to go and do the wrong thing

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verybusyknitter · 25/12/2019 00:36

In my experience, CofE churches these days are usually happy to offer communion to any baptised person who wants it. I'm sure it will be fine for you. Happy Christmas and enjoy the service.

Bluerussian · 25/12/2019 00:45

You can, don't worry about it. Just get in the queue and do what those in front of you do. However you can go to church and not take Communion, it isn't obligatory.

GrandmaSharksDentures · 25/12/2019 00:46

Yes you can. CoE "recognises" Catholic conformation (not sure about after the first HC), but the Catholic Church does not "recognise" Anglican confirmation

DramaAlpaca · 25/12/2019 00:49

Yes, I'm pretty sure you can. You can't do it the other way round though, as the Catholic church doesn't allow it. It's slightly different in a C of E church, so just watch what everyone else does before you go up and follow their lead.

goldenchandelier · 25/12/2019 00:55

Thanks for the very helpful replies will go tomorrow and hopefully figure out what I'm to do.

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cabbageking · 25/12/2019 01:00

The vicar should invite those able to partake.

Some accepted only confirmed Cof E.
Some accept any who take it at their church whether confirmed or not.
Anyone can have the blessing.

Willowkins · 25/12/2019 01:13

Go up as directed and put your hands together palm up out in front of you. Copy what others are doing but rule of thumb is that you kneel if there is a bar across the front of the altar. The vicar says their bit and places a chunk of bread or wafer in your upturned palm. You say: In the name of Christ Amen and eat it. A helper says their bit and guides the cup of wine (or blackcurrant squash) to your lips. You say: In the name of Christ Amen and take a sip. Sometimes people dip their wafer in the wine and then eat it. Then you (get up and) go back to your seat. Hope that helps.

purpleme12 · 25/12/2019 01:16

Wow I thought if anyone was confirmed you could take communion in any church simply cos it's the Christian religion. So stupid that you can't (someone above said Catholic churches won't let you if confirmed in C of E is that correct?)

Tuliptulip · 25/12/2019 01:19

As PO have said, the Anglican Church recognises other Christian denominations and allows them to receive. In our church we don’t say anything when we take communion, so just follow what everyone else is doing!

purpleme12 · 25/12/2019 01:27

Gosh this has surprised me. I think if you're confirmed any church should be able to give you communion. But yes like you say how are they to know anyway

DramaAlpaca · 25/12/2019 01:31

Yes, purpleme12. I'm CofE but I cannot take communion in a Catholic church. If my Catholic DH wished to take communion in a CofE church, he could.

shiveringsparklingtimber · 25/12/2019 02:12

My DD does. XH Catholic, I'm CoE, both DS christened in Catholic Church. DD had her first Communion through school but not DS. DS doesn't take Communion at all, just asks for a blessing.

shiveringsparklingtimber · 25/12/2019 02:13

Should have said both DC, not DS.

TrendingLater · 02/01/2020 10:59

You say: In the name of Christ Amen and eat it.

Can I please ask, I have only ever heard people say 'Amen' and only say 'Amen' myself. Have I omitted a big faux pas all these years? Blush

OP, yes you can take communion in a CofE service as a RC but not vice versa.

TrendingLater · 02/01/2020 11:00

*commited!

Gwilt160981 · 02/01/2020 11:02

I was baptized in Catholic church and didn't even know this. 🤔

HolyheadBound · 02/01/2020 11:06

OP, yes you can take communion in a CofE service as a RC but not vice versa.

I’m a confirmed RC but a practicing Anglican and agree with this. MIL keeps insisting I should take communion at Mass too as I’m confirmed but as I refuse to go to confession for a sin that the Catholic Church views as mortal, and I don’t, I won’t.

isittheholidaysyet · 02/01/2020 11:10

Can I just point out, as I don't think it has been mentioned, that the Catholic church teaches that Catholics should not receive communion in the churches of other Christians.

Obviously, it's up to each individual Catholic to decide whether they choose to follow church teaching or not.

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