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Registrar office wedding christian query

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CantRainAllTheTime · 09/03/2019 23:49

I married my first husband in a registrar office, no religious ceremony. Does this marriage count in the eyes of the Lord? Having recently gone from being an atheist to a christian, i would like to know what the general consensus is?

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Hedgehogblues · 09/03/2019 23:57

I don't see why it wouldn't but if it bothers you you can renew your vows in a church

FissionChip5 · 10/03/2019 00:01

Of course it counts, God is present at all times, was there when you made your vows.

Have a blessing if it makes you feel better but there really is absolutely no need at all.

C0untDucku1a · 10/03/2019 00:02

Do you mean youre divorced and want to marry the new man in church?

What kind of christian?

CantRainAllTheTime · 10/03/2019 00:25

I divorced my first husband eight years ago and married my second husband, also in a registrar office, we are not divorced.

I am non denomination currently as i have only very recently found faith in God and attending my local church (church of scotland) for the first time tomorrow. It is all very new.

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Caticorn · 10/03/2019 00:28

For Catholics it wouldn't count as marriage is a sacrament that needs to take place in a church, performed by a priest.
Not sure about other denominations, sorry.

PerspicaciaTick · 10/03/2019 00:48

You entered a contract to marry your husband. I don't see how you can morally slide out of that commitment, unless God is OK with people not really meaning the things they promise.

FissionChip5 · 10/03/2019 00:50

Can’t imagine God wants people to be unhappy.

Fatted · 10/03/2019 00:52

God probably has more important things to worry about really in the grand scheme of things.

Fatted · 10/03/2019 00:53

What the church believes though is another matter entirely.

AssassinatedBeauty · 10/03/2019 00:54

Do you think that the church you're attending won't recognise your second marriage?

CantRainAllTheTime · 10/03/2019 01:10

The church is the church of scotland which from what i understand, does not believe marriage is a sacrament so i assume the fact that i have married twice wouldnt be an issue.

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weegiemum · 10/03/2019 10:50

Church of Scotland will recognise your civil wedding no problem (grew up in and was married in the CofS).

I hope you enjoy church this morning - I'm just waiting for my lift!

CantRainAllTheTime · 10/03/2019 12:29

I did enjoy church, i was very nervous and its made me realise how much i have isolated myself over the years as everyone was so friendly and chatty and i felt quite anxious about socialising but that will pass.

I was shocked that my dh and i were the only 'young' people there. Made me quite sad really.

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Youcangoyourownwoo · 10/03/2019 12:32

Yep it is recognised Smile

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