Basically my ex broke up with me 1 week 1/2 ago because the situation surrounding our relationship didn’t make her happy. I have a child from a previous relationship who I have 4 days out if 9! My ex found me having my daughter difficult and stayed she doesn’t want a child in her life so walked out.
We have been together nearly two years and she always knew I had a child. She has mentioned it in the past but stayed to work through it because she love me. It now seems to have got too much for her.
We lived together and then she just walked out moving back home with her parents which is 1 hr 20 mins away. She then still travels from there to work which is taking her a long time.
I made the mistake of begging and texting etc over the last week. Trying to get her to stay and come back.
She is devastated and so am I. She says she loves me, she doesn’t want anyone else, she is happy with me just not the situation. She said she probably would still be with me if the situation was different.
She wants to be friends still at some point because she says I don’t want to loose you from my life.
We have been messaging most days but it’s been really difficult. She broke down at work and then said to me she just needs some space at the moment which I am giving her now.
What I don’t get is she says she loves me and I am the one for her because she doesn’t want anyone else. But she can be with me as a relationship makes her unhappy. She says when I’ve aske that she doesn’t think we will ever get back together.
I love her and don’t know what to do for the best or how I can win her back. Can anyone help me with this?