My DD#1 seems to see things that we do not. My mother is sensitive to such things and has in the past seen ghosts though not recently. I have never seen one myself but was very aware of someone with me at one point and only afterwards found out that the particular property was believed to be haunted. So, we would not be surprised if she had a gift for such things. She is 2yr 7mth old and now and again waves and says "Hello" to "nothing" especially in my parents house. We are not aware their house is haunted, but we do believe my grandparents are with us at various times and perhaps it is them that she sees. It is hard to ask her what she sees and I do not want to put ideas into her head, I want to hear it from her.
Have you had a child that has done this, how did you talk to them about it and did you encourage the gift - how did you if so? I'm not upset with her if she does see ghosts, in fact it would be sad if she lost the ability if indeed she has such an ability as I suspect.
So far her younger sister does not appear to show any such traits, but she is still very young and time will tell.
Thanks