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Baptism Advice

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TheRealHousewifeofCheshire · 22/01/2018 11:16

Hi

Can anyone offer any advice or support? Ive wanted to get my daughter baptised since birth but my partner was not keen. In two years my desire to formally join the church and to baptise my child hasnt lessened and I think he has finally realised how important it is to me and has agreed i can attend church and he will support me.

However, I was born to a catholic father and a protestant mother. My fathers family were deeply catholic and there were disagreements over wjether i should be baptised or not. So they decided we cpuld make our own minds up. Unfortunately growing up this isnt one of your main concerns so I never gave it much thoygh. Ive now movef away from family and into a new community and would like to reconnect to my faith background.

I know i will need to prove this to the local priest and i plan to attend services at the local church but i dont know how to approach the ossue of a baptism. I want to show my commitment first by attending. I am wprried though that the priest may not want to baptise my daughter because i am not baptised although i want to join the church. My partner and I are not married which may also cause a problem but he is not relihious but we do want yo marry. Again we were young when we got married. I would just like my child to have a stronger moral guidance in their life.

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CraftyGin · 24/01/2018 22:11

Exactly, SD.

Become a member of a church family, and then present yourself for baptism after, say, 6 months of weekly attendance, with perhaps some weekly activities thrown in.

Baptism is about being a member of a church community. You don’t get this on day 1. It’s a process.

Catholics are weird about baptism. It’s all about numbers for them, not growth in Christ.

TheRealHousewifeofCheshire · 25/01/2018 18:54

It is my plan to go to church im sorry if i gave you the impression it wasnt.

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HarveySchlumpfenburger · 25/01/2018 19:59

Even if smaller churches don’t have an RCIA course for you to follow, they will probably be able to arrange one. As another poster said, they may do it 1:1 or they may join together with nearby parishes in order to create a small group.

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