Love Spells: Are they dangerous?

[blushc]

Seeing a bloke fairly casually at the moment - he wants it to be casual - and all is pretty good for both of us, I think. I am a bit tempted to do a spell to make him lust for me more and want me more on all levels, but am worried it might be a dangerous thing because if he was meant to love me surely he would anyway. I think it might be going against what is right and 'meant to be' by tampering with things but then again it could be fun if it did work! Should I chance it?

How do you know it would work ?
Have you done it before ?

Yes chance it and let us know. We all interfere with what is right all the time so just go ahead. There is very little natural way nowadays. Have a go.

Have an (ex)-friend who claims to have done a love spell in the past. I am a little dubious of some of her stories but ..... apparently the bloke ending up stalking her for about 6 months and it all got a bit too much.

Maybe it would be better to find a spell that sheds light on his true feelings, so that you have an idea where the relationship is going, rather than trying to tamper with his emotions.

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I agree with Snugs that finding true feelings in a situation is better... perhaps just a general love spell to attract might do

Ooooooh I think on reflection that although I'm tempted to do the love spell it might be a bit unethical.

I haven't done a love spell myself but know someone who did, got their wish but it was not as they hoped , almost as if it shouldn't have been, then the object of their desire followed them around like your friend Snugs.

Has anyone else tried one, and how did it work out?

i cant remember too well now but there is something in my book that says you shouldnt do a spell on someone if its forcing them to love you...rather than thinking of that particular person, focus on what you want from a relationship and the kind of person you want and see what happens...perhaps a general love spell? there is however something along the lines of feng shui which envolves putting things that reminds you of them in a certain corner etc? could check for you if you're that interested?

blushc, i agree with nightowl - lovespells can be considered as manipulative magick - if it is directed to a certain individual... it may not be advisable as with snug's info - the subject may become far too attached and things may turn for the worse, and the consequences may not be what you're prepared to accept. With all things magick comes great responsibility... If you can, try to find Edain McCoy's book called 'Bewitchments', it contains good information on these things. All the best.

you must be sure you know the difference between love and lust so perhaps find out his feelings for you or as suggested a general love spell and be accepting of what happens it may be different to your desired outcome

Better than a murderous spell I suppose.

*but then again, maybe not.

May try and opening the path of communication ritual. Or removing previous hurt allowing you both to feel organically, not guarding your heart from things because of past hurt.

Not unethical more a love cleanse, to allow the feelings to grow and develop without ghosts of the past interfering.

This is a zombie thread started 14 years ago.

Hopefully the OP has worked things out by now.