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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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Tuo · 13/08/2015 21:32

Sausages... (some randomness, just for BES!) Grin

Seriously, though, you're right Oma (of course): I should have said 'apparently random strangers on the internet'.

Praying for Dontbesilly, for FLaH, for QoF and her DH, and for Edith and her DP, and for the randomest of all, the lovely amazing BES. (Please don't fill up the thread - haven't got time to start a new one this week.)

Adding prayers for Anjelica and her DS. I'm so glad he was able to be at his brother's wedding, but clearly that effort took it out of him, hence the current relapse. Praying for strength for both of you, and for an improvement in his situation very soon .

I am feeling less stressed today. Not much has been resolved yet, but we are getting there. DH is OK - he has pain killers and has to go for some tests next week to check whether it really is a stone.

I found this lovely prayer for education, which felt appropriate on A-level results day:

Almighty God, the fountain of all wisdom: Enlighten by your Holy Spirit those who teach and those who learn, that, rejoicing in the knowledge of your truth, they may worship you and serve you from generation to generation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the same Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Lightnessofbeing2015 · 13/08/2015 22:54

Hello everyone have enjoyed reading through the comments and prayers.
I' m still at work am living in the hospital again tonight to make it easier and then the weekend off. Only one day left.
The new job is going well and I already feel more chilled , I
think my previous job was just so stressful it was affecting me.
Thanks to God for the opportunities I've had and for giving me strength.

BlackeyedSusan · 14/08/2015 12:41

sit down....

I have been to look for a bit of paperwork. it took a bit of pulling bags out of the understairs cupboard, but it was in the bag I thought it was in.

passes round Brew Brew Brew Brew Brew Brew Brew Brew

to ease the shock!

Thank God for answers to prayer.

BlackeyedSusan · 14/08/2015 13:36

I am now muttering and swearing about the rest of the sodding paperwork. I have a habit of putting it somewhere safe and forgetting where that was.

just been through the bin bag collected in the living room at worm incident time and did the first sort, that is somehas been roughly slotted into a couple of folders to be sorted later, recycled or put in a box of keep stuff to be further sorted when relevent folders are found.

lost dd's dla stuff now.

grr.

EdithSimcox · 14/08/2015 16:18

Thanks for the cuppa BES. Needed that. Crap day here.

Can you look for my MOT certificate while you're at it?

Dutchoma · 14/08/2015 16:57

Do you need something stronger, Edith? Wine

EdithSimcox · 14/08/2015 17:01

Thanks Oma. Good plan :)

BlackeyedSusan · 14/08/2015 19:53

found the one for my old car, will that do?

what do you need it for? you definitely do not need it for a new mot. (there were several posts about mot certificates on here from me after misinformation from the bloody garage)

EdithSimcox · 14/08/2015 22:22

To find out when it runs out...

BlackeyedSusan · 15/08/2015 06:25

I am awake stupidly early with a nightmare. supposed to be driving the children to a day out today. inlaws are supposed to be arriving for the last bit as the have stuff on this morning. can really see that happening. anyway I am sounding like my mother who I told I could do mothing for if she counterred everythingwith a but...

BlackeyedSusan · 15/08/2015 09:07

mother is in a state. she has not slept so everybody has abandonned her and it is all wrong. I have attempted to send her back to bed but it is not easy over the phone. there is no getting through to her when she is in this state.

BlackeyedSusan · 15/08/2015 11:19

We are off out for the day please pray that the children cope. me too. inlaws and ex meeting us at some point yet to be determined.

FaithLoveandHope · 15/08/2015 21:21

Evening all,

I'm supposed to be finishing a report that was due yesterday - so naturally I'm on MN instead. If there was a PhD in procrastination I think I could get it without even needing corrections!

Sorry to hear you had a rubbish morning BES Hoping and praying you've had a good day out with the children et al.

Anjelica praying for strength for you and that you feel less alone. I'm not surprised your DS feels washed out after the wedding, very glad he made it though.

Oma I loved what you said on Thursday about not being random strangers.

QofF that sounds lovely lying on the beach looking at the sea. Praying for things between you and DH to improve.

Edith I so hope and pray things are getting better with DP. Are you going to church tomorrow?

QuietIsland I like that saying, "normal for the species but not for the individual". I think too often we can play things down as so many people have been through it before so we should be able to cope. But it's not that simple is it and we all have our own battles, really it doesn't matter if others have been through it before, we all have to cope in our own way.

Tuo how are you by now? Hoping God fills you with peace and you feel less stressed about things.

Hope all who want to manage to get to church tomorrow, or at least find some peace and quiet, some time to spend with God in this manically busy world .

I often read Sacred Space and here's part of it today:
Dear Lord, Teach me to slow down, to be still and enjoy the pleasures created for me. To be aware of the beauty that surrounds me. The marvel of mountains, the calmness of lakes, the fragility of a flower petal. I need to remember that all these things come from you.

EdithSimcox · 15/08/2015 23:23

Hi FLaH, everyone,

No, no church tomorrow. 3 very tough days, felt very near the end (of my relationship) yesterday night, perhaps a teeny tiny chink of light tonight.

Won't pretend I've managed to pray today.

FaithLoveandHope · 15/08/2015 23:51

Awwww Edith here's a very unmumsnetty hug!! Really hope and pray that teeny tiny chink of light expands tonight and into tomorrow. Sometimes we can't manage to pray but that's okay, God hears the murmurs of our heart even when we can't manage to voice them.

Having a total meltdown tonight, not quite sure what the path ahead will entail. Please pray for God's guidance on a situation which I can't really talk about until I know more.

Dutchoma · 16/08/2015 07:53

Praying for a blessing for all this Sunday morning whether church is possible or not. I will go for the first time in two months with a friend to her church, long way from home.

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2015 09:58

overslept after last nights late return. trying to go to church if I can get shifted.

Dontbesilly · 16/08/2015 15:37

Sorry to hear that quite a few of us are having a difficult weekend.

Edith - praying for you and the chink of light to gradually widen and grow and stay grown. It must be so difficult for you. Praying for peace, strength and courage. Thinking of you.

FlaH - praying for you for guidance and peace for this situation and for whatever path you find yourself on and wherever it will takes you.

Oma - wishing you a wonderful weekend with your friend and in visiting her church. Praying for you to return home again safety.

BES - hoping your weekend went well with the ex and inlaws and that you are not too tired afterwards.

Thoughts and prayers for everyone else too.

Tomorrow afternoon my dad has an appointment with a really fantastic oncologist in London. This came about from last week's second opinion, they referred him on. This professor is really very good and we are praying for him to offer dad some treatment. A trial involving placebo drugs was mentioned, but dad fears getting the placebo drug (as do we) so we need to make it known that we want to try drugs. I am praying so hard and constantly that my chest is feeling tight. I just pray for the chance for him to be given a chance.

I am also very angry with the local hospital who put dad's treatment start date on hold while the local oncologist went on holiday for two weeks without anyone else overseeing her work. I absolutely don't begrudge her a holiday, but I am so angry and frustrated that noone oversaw anything during her absence. I was sarcastic to the person who told me this information as if I was being unreasonable. I explained that dad probably won't get another summer and that due to a lack of cover for holidays his treatment plan stood still for two weeks has taken longer than nhs guidelines allow and could possibly change things for the worse but hey ho. Surely it's not rocket science for an oncologist to have holiday cover or for the urgent stuff to still happen while she was away. I am angry that people sometimes don't care enough about each other. Then they don't the world over either.

Please keep dad in your thoughts and prayers for tomorrows appointment and for the chemo starting on Wednesday. My dc wanted to take pictures of grandad before his hair falls out. I said that was ok as long as it was done in a normal photo taking opportunity and didn't upset him. They take photos quite often anyway on phones etc so that should be manageable.

Sorry for the ramblings and the full range of emotions.

Hoping everyone is OK Flowers for you all x

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2015 16:58

the day went really well considering. thanks for the prayers.

ex rang a few minutes ago saying he was on his way. we have been out with him to feed the ducks and got home about 3.20 I am waiting for ex to come back to go out with the children and take the rest of his stuff. ds is moaning about waiting. ex rang saying he was coming and we have emptied the cupboard and carried it downstairs in that time.

Anjelica27 · 16/08/2015 19:19

Keeping you in my thoughts Don'tbesilly and hoping Faith that things work out as you would wish. This has been one crisis too many for me and while ds has calmed I have crumbled. It's taking all my energy to stay 'ordinary' around him but on my own everything makes me cry. Pathetic and not very helpful. I usually find comfort stomping around with the dog and praying but even that seems impossible today. Haven't been helped by dm telling me that ds has ruined my life (and hers too, she never saw him so don't know where that comes from). He hasn't -ruined my life I mean - not helpful mum!!
Keeping everyone in my thoughts

EdithSimcox · 16/08/2015 19:30

Praying... Don't, FLaH, Angelica, BES, Oma, Tuo...

Dontbesilly · 16/08/2015 20:20

Oh Angelica. Why do people have to say the wrong thing at the wrong time. You are doing absolutely amazing even just in behaving ordinary infront of ds. That takes courage and strength. Your not pathetic, actually you sound very strong. You know absolutely that ds hasn't ruined you or your mum's life. However the words are hurtful and I am guessing said in the heat of the moment. I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family.

Try to be kind to yourself and the potential

Dontbesilly · 16/08/2015 20:22

And the potential......stupid autocorrect. That should be at the moment. Oops sorry for that

BlackeyedSusan · 16/08/2015 20:31

oh angelica. Sad sometimes people say the wrong thing completely. so, today was not so good. praying you will find the strength for tomorrow.

well he turned up the nano second before I pressed post. he has taken his videos and |I have an empty cupboard. a very dusty empty cupboard. I am confused though as I thought he kept a whole load of computer magazines at the back...

need to clean out the cupboard and fill it. I was having images of cleaning and painting it but I think i shall just fill it and clear the bloody floor of junk.

Dutchoma · 16/08/2015 20:53

Maybe a quick wipe BES and before you put stuff in the cupboard.

So difficult Anjelica when people say things that are totally wrong and besides the point.

Dontbesilly praying that his new consultant will hold out some hope for you all.