I think a lot of what we think it says about women is in the interpretation. One of the most important church leaders in the NT was a woman and is always listed before her husband and there are plenty of other examples of women leaders.
A good example of a missing word is:
Cor 14.33-36:
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints, 34 women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. 36 Did the word of God originate with you?
In the original it's more like
"For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints, 34 women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church." 36 What? Did the word of God originate with you?
He was quoting someone else and uses a word they couldn't translate to express his disbelief. There is no such Law that women shouldn't speak and it doesn't fit with anything else that Paul says:
"everyone has a hymn, teaching, revelation, tongue, interpretation" (26), "if anyone speaks..." (vs. 27), "for you can ALL prophesy in turn..." (vs. 31). He doesn't say that the gifts are just given for men, he always uses the same inclusive language.
There are people who understand it far better than me who've written loads on the topic, so I can't possibly attempt to do it any justice here.