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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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Badvoc · 12/10/2013 19:47

Mome...my nephew was born at 27 weeks weighing 900g.
He is now a strapping 10 year old and nearly as tall as me :)
But I well remember the worry and stress - I am thinking of you all x
The vicar is coming to see me on weds...he wants me to take on a communications role for the PCC and I don't want to :( he is not easy to work with and some people have left the church because of him. Please pray that I do the right thing.
My dad died 11 weeks ago today. I miss him so much. His headstone was put up yesterday. Why is looking at a headstone so much harder than a wooden cross!? Doesn't make any sense does it?
My aunt is very very ill...I took her for some tests in weds and she has to go back for a ct next week. I think she is dying. I think losing my dad was the last straw for her.
I am struggling to see any point in all this suffering.
Roll on half term. I need some pj days!
Glad the party went ok BES.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 12/10/2013 20:29

Positive stores on premies are always good to hear. She's on a ventilator to help her breath at the mo.

I can well imagine why a headstone is so much harder. Makes it all so much more real. So painful for you at the moment and with worry for your Aunt as well. Prayers for peace and wisdom with this role x

Badvoc · 12/10/2013 20:43

Thank you mome.
My dn was in a ventilator for a while, then a cpap. He was in Scbu for 11 weeks so they are in for a long haul sadly.
He did have a couple of set backs...a gastro bug, and one of his lungs collapsed :( but he fought it all and had great care.
He also had a hernia op!
You would never guess now that he was a premie.
Your family are in my thoughts and prayers x

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 12/10/2013 20:53

Yeah their DS needed a hernia op. He was 31 weeks at birth. He's in great health now but unsettled at his parents not being about much.

SIL is very tearful. So lots of prayers for her too at the moment.

cloutiedumpling · 12/10/2013 21:03

Lurking and praying.

Mome - praying for your niece and family.

Kay - fantastic news!

A medical issue has arisen with DS1 and we have to take him for a follow up appointment on Monday. I googled and now wish I hadn't! Praying that he gets given the all clear.

Badvoc · 12/10/2013 21:03

Your poor sil :(
And to go though this twice!
My sister was very ill so was pretty out of it at first tbh.
My dn was born on oct 1st and was home on dec 20th.

Dutchoma · 12/10/2013 21:30

Giving thanks with BES for a good party.
Praying for Mome's niece, Badvoc, F0D, Lollipop nd T
Tunnocksteacake and Cloutie* and her ds.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 12/10/2013 21:47

I think she thought first time was a one off. No one in her family has had premature births before and doctors couldn't explain why it happened either. But twice is so much worse and even earlier.

Praying cloutie and thinking of everyone else right now too. Lots to pray for.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 12/10/2013 21:55

I'm so glad you had a lovely party bes - Well done!

PositiveAttitude · 13/10/2013 08:55

I have been reading ad praying regularly again, just not posting too much.

Amber fantastic news! Smile
Mome prayers for baby and the family.
BES pleased the party went well. A day of feet up and recovering in order today and I hope DS is still well. Also hope DD enjoyed her party.
Kay How wonderful to read such a positive post from you. Prayers for a lovely home for you now.
Tuo I understand the dentist fear. A lovely dentist makes all the difference - so glad you found one. Praying that you are not too snowed under with work.
FOD & Lollipop Prayers continuing for you and your family
Badvoc Prayers for you too. Don't take on the job if you are not 100% sure that you should be doing it!!! I did a job for 6 years. First 4 were wonderful with on minister, then we changed minister and he was a nightmare and it made my life so hard and the job I loved became just horrible. I would have left a year earlier if we had not been moving away. I loved the "job" but the person made it impossible, iyswim.

Life it pretty good with the PA family. I have a second scan picture from DD3 - all looks good with the remaining baby. She even has a very small bump now DH's new job is going very well and he is loving it. Me, too. I am loving it so much that I wonder if I was made purely for this job.....or was the job made purely for me! We fit like a glove! Smile
Prayers for a job for DD1 would be appreciated.

Have a blessed Sunday.

Tuo · 13/10/2013 15:48

MHD thank you so much. I feel very blessed, and many of my problems are of my own making (I can't say 'no', take on too much, and then wonder how I'll fit it all into the time available...). However, I could really do with prayers for staying on top of things atm. It has got to the point where I wake up in the morning already feeling panicked by the thought of all I have to do, and every time I sit down to tick things off the list I just discover more stuff to do... I've been aware that my not getting enough sleep isn't helping, and I had to be at work all day yesterday at well, so I went to bed a bit earlier last night (early = midnight; normal = between 1 and 2), but that just made the panicky feelings worse, as I now have twice as much to do today. There will be an end to all this, but probably not till next summer, so I need to find ways of coping also in the more immediate future, and your prayers would be much appreciated. Thank you.

Thanking God for a good party for BES's DD and praying that DS is soon completely better.

Thanking God too for such a positive update from Kay, and keeping prayers going for the right house for you and your DS.

Prayers for FoD and Lollipop and Badvoc in their time of mourning. And also praying for your aunt, Badvoc.

Praying for better health now, and throughout this winter, for MHD, and also praying for good health and strong friendships for her DD.

Thanking God that PA's job makes her so happy, for her DH's new job too, and that her DD3's pregnancy is going well; and praying for a job also for her DD1.

Work prayers for Juggling too... praying that something will come up that will really make you happy. Don't worry about where you sit in relation to the fence... I love that this thread brings together people from all denominational backgrounds as well as those who may not be sure what exactly they believe but who need prayer in their lives.

Continuing to pray for Mome's SIL, her baby, and the rest of the family.

And also praying for Faith and Faithlet... How are you now, Faith? Are you feeling more positive? And have you found a church to attend where you feel comfortable? And is Faithlet better?

And finally keeping prayers going for Mary, for Amber, for Tunnocks, for BoxOfDelights, for JakeBullet, for Oma and Bob, for Charlotte and for Room... and of course for anyone I've omitted to mention.

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Tuo · 13/10/2013 15:49

Oops... I missed cloutie's post... Praying for your DS's health and for a reassuring appointment on Monday.

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BlackeyedSusan · 13/10/2013 20:20

parent's evening tomorrow. could be tricky about dd. even trickier about ds.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 13/10/2013 20:21

DN has a name, she's called Grace, keep lifting her up. She's off the ventilator today.

HadALittleFaith · 13/10/2013 20:49

Beautiful Mome! Lifting Grace up. Great news about the ventilator.

Praying through.

I'm still struggling but we had a breakthrough with DH settling Faithlet tonight so hopefully that will improve. I'm waiting on my first counselling appointment but thinking more seriously about antidepressants.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 13/10/2013 21:50

I was on ADs for a year. Marvellous things. But initially I wasn't keen at the thought of them. But I'm glad I found the courage to see the GP in the end.

Praying for you.

cloutiedumpling · 13/10/2013 21:53

Mome - what a lovely name. Fantastic to hear that she is off the ventilator. It sounds like she is doing well.

FriendofDorothy · 14/10/2013 08:22

We buried Mum on Friday and had a service of celebration on Saturday - we reckon about 400 people turned up and it was a lovely service.

Yesterday about 25 of my close family all came down with a D&V bug. Whilst The Mister, Little Mister and I aren't too bad we all feel a bit off colour and The Mister is working nights.

I had a reasonable nights sleep but kept waking up thinking Mum was dead in my bed. I am missing her so much this morning because I just want to phone her for a chat.

Please pray for strength and health for all of us today. I just want to cry.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 14/10/2013 09:23

Am so sorry you've lost your Mum FriendofD, and are missing her so much Sad
The service of celebration on Saturday sounds lovely, and perhaps something to think about when you're feeling sad.
I always think services with some thanksgiving for the person's life, and celebration of all the good times, are the best ones Flowers

amberlight · 14/10/2013 09:44

Praying for each of you...

Bluetinkerbell · 14/10/2013 10:40

Praying for you all.

We had a bit of down time this weekend. DH felt it was all becoming too much, looking after the girls. I felt sad as although I really enjoy my new job, and it is giving me the experience I need, I feel so tired in the evenings that I don't have time to do the reading for the DDO and write my essay.
Sometimes I think why am I doing this.
We're giving up so much, my family is doing this all for me and why...
Didn't dare to talk to DH and say that maybe I should give up my job and he could go to work, so I can look after the girls and hopefully have a bit more time to do the things I need to do for the DDO...
He said maybe he should look for a job and we put DD3 into childcare :(

madhairday · 14/10/2013 12:16

Blue :( praying for wisdom and for rest for you both.

Prayed for you all as I read through....esp prayers of comfort for FoD.

I'm doing dla forms again this morning, I find them just so depressing, they make me concentrate on how bad I actually am....especially bad as I am mid infection and not getting better. feeling pretty down, and trying hard to take my own advice about contentment in suffering right now.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 14/10/2013 14:00

Dear MHD, sorry you're feeling down especially doing those forms - I was thinking that the dla form is only asking for one side of the picture (like the prosecution in a court of law ?) You're being asked to say why you need dla and what particular support you need ?
And you're not being asked about the support from those around you (?), or your inner strength, or faith, or any of those things. Does that help even a tiny bit? So I can see it's almost bound to be a dispiriting thing to do, but hopefully will bring some support for you?
Thinking of you.

madhairday · 14/10/2013 17:25

Thanks Juggling. I do try and keep detached from them but they do bring home how bad I am at times and it gets me down a little. Hopefully get em finished tomorrow and forget about it for a bit.

How are you? Lovely to see you back on this thread :)

RoomForALittleOne · 14/10/2013 21:37

Evening All. It's been so long since I posted that I don't have the thread in my list anymore (or a list at all for the matter!)

Above all else, I am praying for peace for everyone. So many difficult situations are on here and there is only God who can give peace in these situations. I sense the weariness in many posts as well. Sometimes strength to keep going isn't what God gives us immediately but He is gracious enough to give us rest and the space that we need.

Life in the Room household is very busy. We have been released from our diocese to look at curacies in the rest of the country so we are travelling to one in half term. It's a funny old process. I didn't like the blind matching part at the beginning but discerning where to look from a national list is equally hard! I had a good prayer session with DH and we were both honest about how we feel about different options rather than trying to say what we think the other person wants to hear. I think we have got the right place to look at next after much worrying that we might be meant to go elsewhere. It's very exciting now!

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