nooka Exactly why the books that are in the Bible are in, is something I can't really explain except that God guided those people to put together the canon and I suppose my answer would have to be, if you would like an answer which maybe not, that they aren't meant to be taken literally, but they have something to tell us about human history and I know that some of it is history, but I agree some is not, it is poetry, dreams, songs etc. I can certainly understand why many of the things that are written can be seen as offensive.
OneLieIn I am not trying to convince you of anything but just for the record I am a feminist and a Christian. I don't think God is a man. I know that we use the term 'he' but that (for me at least) is to be distinct for 'it' not to be distinct form 'she'. There are lots of women in the Bible but you are right there are more men. The Bible was written down by people so I believe it has been influenced by people, I do not believe it was dictated word for word from God to people, if you see what I mean.
I guess Pedro that that is why I speak about experience, I really don't want to upset or rattle anyone's cage, it is very hard to explain something personal, like explaining why I love my husband or like eating Chinese red bean cake when no one I know does! I have had an experience of God, and a relationship with Jesus for 30 years; I look at the Bible in the light of that experience. Just as I would read a love letter from my husband (when I used to get them and that was a long time ago!) in the light of the relationship I have with my husband. And when I see a red bean cake I think yum because I like to eat them. I know it is not a perfect analogy at all; I am just trying to explain.
In some ways it seems pointless to do so because I can see how much many people feel my view on life is wrong and part of me doesn't feel that anything I can say will make much sense, but I guess I did not want to appear cowardly and just post and then disappear.
You have been very helpful in explaining to me why some atheists are very hostile to religion and God etc and to Christians. I mean that genuinely I did not understand why people felt so strongly. I can totally understand people not believing in God. I also feel in some ways that this type of discussion where one person posts, then another then someone else and someone takes offence and someone else mentions something etc etc makes it very hard to really understand what is behind people's thoughts and to connect with people. I feel if we were having this chat over a coffee or a glass of wine we would all feel much open to the discussion and connecting more on a personal level. I'm not explaining that well I guess it feels quite hostile, like I am lobbing my views like custard pies out of a trench and then retreating! It is only my desire to learn what makes others tick and to share what makes me tick. I am going away now for Easter and so may not get a chance to post for a day or two, if i do not may I wish you the peace of this Friday, not Good Friday, just any old Friday. 