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Going through something that I cant talk about, its unprecedented pressure

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graceinabundance · 12/12/2011 14:40

and I feel so very isolated.

I guess I just want a hug and to be told everything is ok and that god has a plan.

I do not know if I am coping ok or not but I guess given the circumstances I probably am doing ok, sigh

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MargotQuaker · 12/12/2011 16:41

You know the Micah quote: "What doth the Lord require of theee, but to shun bias and to prize kindness and to walk humbly with thy God"? My hunch is that walking humbly means keeping on remembering that all our guesses are guesses and we don't know. Acting as if we do know is one form of error. --Also the quote used in the King's Speech one year:

^"The Gate of the Year" by Minnie Haskins 1908

I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year
'Give me a light that I may tread safely into the unknown.'

And he replied, 'Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the hand of God
That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way.'^

Be careful with yourself in terms of eating, sleeping, exercise and minimising self-blame. Keep your courage up. Find someone safe to tell.

chinam · 12/12/2011 16:49

. Asking God to lift you up at this time.

Cluckingmad · 12/12/2011 19:42

Grace
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." Jeremiah 29 11-14.

This verse is one I turn to often, we all need reminding of it at times, know that God does have a good plan for you, he loves you and will never abandon you. I dont know what you are going through but never forget you are not alone, you have Jesus on your side! If you need to talk you are welcome to PM me x

MaryBeWaiting · 12/12/2011 20:18

He DOES have a plan, but doesn't always tell us what it is. So hard to trust, but thats what we are asked to do.

graceinabundance · 13/12/2011 00:20

thanks guys

just feel incredibly isolated with this particular problem, and as i am so jovial in eral life, finding an outlet to chat is hard

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MaryBeWaiting · 13/12/2011 08:18

If you need to share with someone, you can always PM me?

acorntree · 13/12/2011 09:34

I?m sure you know it, but I find this really useful ?

?God has created me to do Him some definite service. He has committed some work to me which He has not committed to another. I have my mission. I may never know it in this life, but I shall be told it in the next. I am a link in a chain, a bond of connection between persons. He has not created me for naught. I shall do good; I shall do His work. I shall be an angel of peace, a preacher of truth in my own place, while not intending it if I do but keep His commandments. Therefore, I will trust Him, whatever I am, I can never be thrown away. If I am in sickness, my sickness may serve Him, in perplexity, my perplexity may serve Him. If I am in sorrow, my sorrow may serve Him. He does nothing in vain. He knows what He is about. He may take away my friends. He may throw me among strangers. He may make me feel desolate, make my spirits sink, hide my future from me. Still, He knows what He is about.? (J.H.Newman)

I hope you find some way you can talk to someone.

graceinabundance · 13/12/2011 14:15

mary be waiting i may just do that! and thanks all who answered my wee thread, means alot.

ps thats some quote acorntree, im going to re read it xxx

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springydaffs · 30/12/2011 13:00

Well, you have trouble in this world but don't be dismayed, he has overcome the world. I'm also going through something that, if you read it in a book, you wouldn't believe it, it's so hideous and far-fetched

No, seriously though, there is no way you could bear it if he wasn't there, with you all the way - nay, going before you! It forces you to rely on him totally from the depth of your being. I admit I'm very angry - with him? with the situation? both - but I just keep plugging away, hanging on, reminding him - and me - of his promises. He's at the top, he's in control; whether it looks like it or not. Sometimes I think he's got something to sort out and you just hold on while the shit hits the fan, batten down the hatches and HOLD ON while the hurricane bashs and batters everything around you. You pray for him to sort something out, he moves in, we howl... with how painful it is. Yes it is indeed very painful.

Where else is there to go? Once you know he is who he says he is - and some! - there is nowhere else to go. I've tired - didn't work

springydaffs · 30/12/2011 13:27

ime of talking to people - christians and non-christians - they don't get it. Jump to conclusions. Accuse. It was hard enough to get it out in the first place and to be knocked back.. doubly isolating. It can be threatening for christians, in particular, to hear of grotesque trials - they think that something like that couldn't possibly be happening, it must be your fault (implied: God wouldn't let it happen / something like that could happen to me = frightening). But it is happening and he gets it, right? sometimes I think he pulls you aside - just you and him. It's not supposed to be for the longterm but it is for the short term. Sometimes I have fleeting gratitude that there is nobody else who can walk through this with me, just him. Just me and him. I have no idea what to do next and maybe that's a 'good' place to be. I do have people who are praying though, you need that.

heyhoitsgoingtosnow · 30/12/2011 23:17

springydaffs, I can tell youre talking my language Xmas Grin

would love you to PM me to have a wee chin wag if you have time? x

sam139 · 31/12/2011 10:13

hey springydaffs i am new on here and found your wee thread as i was looking to see if there was any Christian stuff on mumsnet. so sorry to read you having a really hard and lonely time. been in tough situations in the past too and know that i would not have survived without my firm and very real faith in a God who made me and His Son who died for me and a God who just cares about every thing i go thouugh on this earth.want to share a wee pasage which i love -its Psalm 56. I especially love the verse where it says He collects my tears in His bottle. VS 8. Reminds me of the intimate care my God has for me. blows me away!! Really trust it encourages you too. Shirley x

Psalm 56
Be gracious to me, O God, for man tramples on me;
all day long an attacker oppresses me;
2 my enemies trample on me all day long,
for many attack me proudly.
3 When I am afraid,
I put my trust in you.
4 In God, whose word I praise,
in God I trust; I shall not be afraid.
What can flesh do to me?

5 All day long they injure my cause;
all their thoughts are against me for evil.
6 They stir up strife, they lurk;
they watch my steps,
as they have waited for my life.
7 For their crime will they escape?
In wrath cast down the peoples, O God!

8 You have kept count of my tossings;
put my tears in your bottle.
Are they not in your book?
9 Then my enemies will turn back
in the day when I call.
This I know, that God is for me.
10 In God, whose word I praise,
in the LORD, whose word I praise,
11 in God I trust; I shall not be afraid.
What can man do to me?

12 I must perform my vows to you, O God;
I will render thank offerings to you.
13 For you have delivered my soul from death,
yes, my feet from falling,
that I may walk before God
in the light of life.

heyhoitsgoingtosnow · 01/01/2012 00:35

great scripture there it has encouraged me! thank you

sam139 · 01/01/2012 11:07

Hi graceinabundance sorry just looking back over his thread and realised it was you who statrted it and not Springy daffs. Told you I'm New!! A Big cyber hug and lots of prayers! Trust the New year brings fresh hope and new light to the situation. Meantime wishing grace and peace to carry the burden. sx

springydaffs · 01/01/2012 21:08

you dear woman for typing that out - immensely encouraging. Thank you. I'm rather glued to psalms at the mo - so human, so real.

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