Thanks for your comments.
Yes I have also found these two sites before and found them the most accessible. The Beliefnet is good for the discussion groups.
I was raised a Catholic but didn't (get the trinity)like the dogmatic, unquestionable doctrine and practices - I have always respected the other faiths, particularly Islam and Buddhism. Although I have aften felt that belonging to one group diminishes the importance of the others.
Since having ds I have considered going to a local child-friendly church, and went along to the local methodist toddler group to have a sneak pre-view. I then did some library research, and although the founder Wesley was a 'very nice man' I still couldn;t accept the trinity.
So (last week) I looked at the BBC site for a list of faiths, to see if any matched my beliefs - and Unitarianism did EXACTLY - finally. Sorry for the long speel, but I've been so excited. I attended a local service on Sunday, and it was such a relief to find it was not a weird cult, but a normal service (without distracting imagery and statues).
This sunday I will be going a little further afield to Hampstead, as this is a bigger congregation with a children's service.