How can i find forgiveness...

[mary123]

I sent back a preganancy a few months ago. Now I am approaching what would of been my due date im beginning to wonder if i did the right thing. i was so unhappy when i found out i was pregnant i cried every day and couldnt see any future ahead of me. Having a termination went against all of beliefs but i couldnt see any other way at the time. Now looking back things are less blurry and i wonder how god will ever forgive me.

oh mary I remember what you went through... i posted on some of your threads about this.

i am not a believer myself, but I am rpetty sure that God will forgive you if you ask for forgiveness.
Remember, he knows you... he knows what you were going through and he knows why you did what you did...

it'll be ok

This may not help as I am not religious, but what helped me was the thought that if unborn babies really do have souls, then those souls muct be transferable in some way. The counsellor told me I was weird, but it makes 100% sense to me.

I don't think God has anything to forgive.

I can't legitimately offer any spiritual advice, but only console you in the thought that you were doing the best at the time...I suggest you try to find a counsellor to help you through the coming months. Look after yourself, despite your doubts.

Spirit Children

mary, do you attend church? perhaps you could speak to your priest/pastor or an elder or someone?

This may or may not help but you made a decision...one that at that moment in time you believed was right for you. I'm no christian but surely what god wants from us is to make the best decisions we can and do the best we can.

This may or may not help but you made a decision...one that at that moment in time you believed was right for you. I'm no christian but surely what god wants from us is to make the best decisions we can and do the best we can.