I've been invited to a Bar Mitzvah, but not sure of dress code for dc

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Or even if there is one. I've got a clear idea for me as an adult/ married woman, but do any of the 'rules' apply to dc? Dd aged 9
It'll be first time in a synagogue for us!

I would say, similar to what you would dress them in for a wedding, along with a hat or scarf for you and them, although I believe that hats are often provided for the men and boys attending. That's a guess as I'm not Jewish, I've only seen pictures of Bar Mitzvahs and they looked quite formal. It's a really big day for a nice Jewish boy!

You need to find out if is it an orthodox or reform/progressive synagogue. At my DH and DD's shul (synagogue) which is progressive, the congregation do not dress up at all - jeans, anoraks, whatever, even when there's a BM. I think the rules you mention only apply for orthodox (even very orthodox).

The BM's guests usually make an effort and are abit smarter, children too! Yarmulke (little caps) are (unusually) optional at DH's shul, but yes, these would be provided for males if required.

I'm not jewish but have been to a few BMs. Enjoy it.

Thanks all.

Arms covered - is a cardi over short sleeves ok? DD never gets too hot so wouldn't take it off....