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Come and talk to me about adopting cats. Maybe a Siamese. I'm rambling, sorry.

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OtterInaSkoda · 29/04/2010 18:52

Our lovely, lovely cat died the other week. We'd had her for 8 years, but as she was a stray who'd turned up and adopted us, we know nothing of her history and suspect that she was reasonably old when she died.

We were going to wait a while but the house is so empty. There will be no replacing our lovely Bu - she really was wonderful - but very much want to share our home with a feline again.

But I've never had to choose a cat before. How do I do it?

I've visited the local rescue centre and spotted a lovely Siamese boy who is apparently a bit of a handful and probably totally unsuitable for us but I completely fell for him. I'd like a cat (or cats) with a bit of character and I just loved the way he came up to the window of his pod and shouted at me about how truly outrageous the situation was and what was I going to do about it (I have officially become Mad Cat Lady I think).

I doubt tbh that they'd let us have him anyway - I imagine there are experienced Siamese owners who'd have first dibs on him. Having said that is was very, ahem, odd. I can see a lot of people really not liking him at all. There were two reserves on his sister, but noone seemed to want him.

OTOH Bu was a moggy and moggies are lovely too. I've thought about having one older cat and one younger, would that be a good plan?

OK, so this has become a ramble - in a nutshell: how on earth do I choose? What questions do I ask the Home?

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mycatunderstandsme · 29/04/2010 19:45

Oh Otter-we also lost a beloved cat a couple of weeks ago and the house does seem empty.

He was a rescue cat and the second rescue cat we have had. I would recommend choosing a vocal/friendly cat. This was what we did last time and he has been an absolute delight.

The siamese cat sounds lovely-that is the kind of cat I would go for as I like more of a companion cat!!

Not sure if I am ready for another just yet-maybe towards the end of the year.

aJumpedUpPantryBoy · 29/04/2010 20:51

Sorry to hear you lost your cat.

There is no harm in asking for the Siamese cat - they may say yes. One of mine is part siamese and he is a real character.

However, if you want 2 cats you might be best getting a pair from cat rescue - 2 who already get on together then you don't have to deal with any issues if they don't get on.
We have 5 cats at the moment - all rescued and adding a new cat to the mix changes dynamics and they can take a while to establish the pecking order and settle down together.

blametheparents · 29/04/2010 20:55

I love Siamese cats.
We had them when I was a child growing up, and they are sooo friendly (disclaimer, the 3 that we had were very friendly)
VERY vocal though, and can be a bit of a handful, but such a lovely temperament.

Vallhala · 29/04/2010 21:04

I love Siamese and I've no doubt whatsoever that the one you met was saying exactly how unacceptable the level of roomservice was at the rescue!

On a more serious note, should he not be the cat for you and you want two, I'd say that an established pair are going to be far easier to handle than two strangers. Additionally you'll be doing the cat rescue world a double kindness as it's often far harder to home a pair of pets than just one, and the duos frequently remain unwanted in rescue for a long time.

Whatever you choose I hope he/she/they make you happy and bring comfort to you after the loss of your Bu.

Ariesgirl · 29/04/2010 21:28

Sorry to hear you lost your cat. It does break your heart doesn't it. A few years ago my parents' cat who we'd had since I was in my early teens had to be put down and I started to cry in front of a classful of Y6's. Most embarrassing! They were very kind to me for all of, ooh, fifteen minutes.
Anyway OH and I adopted a cat from the Cats' Protection League. She's a tabby and white beautiful beautiful moggie and I absolutely adore her. I'm genuinely concerned sometimes over whether I can love a baby as much as the cat! She's very vocal as well, so may have some Siamese in her. She does have a few problems though regarding how high maintenance she is. She is traumatised by catteries so we have to take her to my mum's 200 miles away whenever we go away, or take her. We have only got a yard, not a garden so she needs a litter tray. Even if she uses it just for a wee, she won't use it again unless it's changed. She's very nervous of everyone apart from us and spends a lot of time cowering.

So she's far harder work than we envisaged so you need to be very sure it's what you want. But we love her!

aJumpedUpPantryBoy · 29/04/2010 21:36

Vallhala is right - our latest additions are sisters who had been in rescue for ages because no one wanted 2 cats.

They are lovely - one is very shy but is getting bolder. The other is a real character - she adores DH and follows him around the garden - she flirts with him to trya and get his attention. She is tiny, but has but all the other cats (3 fairly heft tom cats) in their places.

Katymac · 29/04/2010 21:43

I just 'adopted' 2 orientals to replace a siamese

They are lovely

The home might give the brother & sister to you as you are prepared to take both

I wouldn't take 2 cats unless they came as a pair

CarGirl · 29/04/2010 21:46

We took on a brother & sister somali, lovely lovely breed fairly noisy, love people - they are the long haired version of abysinnians if you conatact their cat clubs welfare section they will consider you when/if they have any that need rehoming.

Siamese can be very destructive!

OtterInaSkoda · 30/04/2010 09:34

Thank everyone

Aries - bless you sobbing in front of your class! I have every sympathy. DP and I were in a right state in the lead up to her dying and I reckon the whole street must have heard us sobbing when we buried her in the garden. I lost my mum a few years ago so it's not as if I've never known grief, but this really took me by surprise. Obviously the grief is of a different order but it's very real all the same.

CarGirl - yes I was warned that the Siamese boy can be very destructive. I guess this is one reason why everyone wants his prettier, less mad sister.

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oxocube · 30/04/2010 10:04

Siamese cats are lovely. I have had 2 in the last 20 years and loved them to bits. Have 2 moggies (brother and sister) at the moment who are also gorgeous but the Siamese personality is a hoot! Personally, I would always go for 2 cats. Very sorry about the cat you recently lost

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