Our oldish cat (age unknown - 12? maybe) has been going a bit barmy since Christmas. Amongst other delights, he takes any opportunity to hump the DCs soft toys . He was neutered years ago for definite - we took him to the vets for the snip. Does, um, anything "come out" once they are neutered i.e. do I have to throw the toys away? (there are lots). I think he is a bit stressed and am trying some Feliway to resolve that. He gets outside a lot and there is lots of green space in the field at the end of the garden so he is not short of exercise.
Sorry, to put this on what I imagine is usually quite a fluffy, nice board but I am at a loss and it is only a matter of time before one of the DCs catches him "at it" and I am not really ready for a "birds and bees" convo with a 3 and 5 yo involving a masturbating tom!