I dont want him to leave
we are both home owners
we lice out of town right near the sea
there is only 5 others houses here
he is my dads age
I dont mean him any harm
I dont want my dog to bother him just as I dont want my dog to bother anyone
I didn't phone the police when he was hitting my dog as ut didn't even cross my mind
the problem I have with him is his attitude
he has always been a little interfering
asking my husband and I (whilst we were standing in our chicken coop with our chickens and rabbit and he passed by in his car) id we had a license for that rabbit
neil laughed and it vecame clear he was serious
when I had frends over and they were parked along the side of our lane he then knocked and demanded I moved the cars as its not a car park
the thing is you dont need a license for a rabbit
and we can park where we like on our property as long as he can pass in his car, which he could, we made sure of it
also we have had duke since easter day and he had been escaping and going into his garden which we rectified by doublung the height of the fence and getting a dog trainer to train him (he was only 7 months)
the dog trainer and neil spoke to the neaighbour about him escaping and apologised and the neighbour was very understanding and saying things like, it's alright mate I can see your getting it sorted, thanks for tekkingme whats going on'
but then in august neil died and the neighbour has become aggresive in the way he speals to me and at the drop of a hat will phone the police
three time for the dog
I have the polive here twice and in between those times the first policeman that had visited us phone me and said I'm not coming down, I know you are doing all you can and we know what your neighbour is like
so I'm assuming that the neighbout knew the police didn't come out to us that time as he theb pgoned the rescue centre that we got duke form and reported us for neglecting the dog
so then I had them come out to check
I have no problem with them checking btw
but they did it because if a flase accusation and he wasted their time
I dont understand his problem
all this happened without me evr swearing at him or anything
he never once came to the door to ask if we realised the dog was entering his garden or if we were working on a solution or even to just complain directly to us
no he realised that in august the police had come to my door to inform me of the death of my husband and he sent the police to my dorr two more times between august and christmas
I have then since not felt it matters what I do
so coupled with doing my upmost to control the dog and ensure he bothers noone, I have been unable to curb my frustration towards his attitude so when I saw him hitting my dog and he starts shouting at me I swore at him
I didn't say fuck you
I said stop fucking hitting my dog
I beleive there is a difference albeit slight
he has also always been very annoyed that I am fluching nappies down the toilet
he is cinvinced
I have tried time and again to calmly explain that I have nevr abd would never do that at all ever
and then he will say 'ok, now stop flushing nappp[ies down the toilet'
literally, I say, I have never done that and he says ok, now stop doing it
again and again
honestly, I do not know how to deal with him in any way at all
I am at the end of my tether already
on the 24th of august my life fell apart and I have three small children, 2 stepsons and a pg dil (ish) to carry and I'm not managing
he doesn't seem to be aware of any of this
even thought he is
I cant cope with it