It's been going on for over a yr now.
she quite happy in herself,she's 13 but an old 13 ,lupus and arthritis and just really slow.
she's actually not bothered by the pooing,it just happens and she lies down as if nothing has happened..which I'm glad about really as I wouldn't want her to be distresssed about it..If that was the case I would have maybe thought about ending it.
god it's so hard..she's like my baby
but the shit is getting a bit much tbh
any advice welcome