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Has anyone brought a buried pet back to the UK?

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woollyjumperseason · Today 09:00

Hi bit of a sensitive subject. Our cat died last year and we buried her at our home in France. Unknown to us at the time we have had to move back to the UK. We are now looking at how to bring her to be buried in our new home. Has anyone done this before. It might be easier to cremate her but not sure if that's possible as she has been buried for a year or so.
Thanks in advance

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whatthehellyhell · Today 16:56

What have I just read. Gosh, cat owners are weird

FancyBiscuitsLevel · Today 17:01

OP - don’t do this.

perhaps look at it like this- she is currently buried in her territory , she’s in the garden she patrolled and kept safe from “invaders”. She’s beneath her hunting ground. If you leave her where she is, she will be forever in her territory that she knew so well, probably better than you did!

If you had been able to ask her, I bet she’d have wanted to spend eternity in her own territory. Not being upheaved to a garden she doesn’t know.

Seeingadistance · Today 17:05

I'm sorry for your loss, OP.

I think you have to do what is best for you.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Today 17:13

Prince Philip was entombed in the Royal Vault of St George's Chapel untl Elizabeth died, then he was moved to join her in the King George VI Memorial Chapel. George VI himself spent several years in that vault before the chapel named after him was finished. My point is that moving remains can be done and often is for royals.

I would get DCat cremated in France, if bringing her home is what you opt for. Doing so will negate all the biocontrol problems you'd otherwise face.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Today 17:20

FancyBiscuitsLevel · Today 17:01

OP - don’t do this.

perhaps look at it like this- she is currently buried in her territory , she’s in the garden she patrolled and kept safe from “invaders”. She’s beneath her hunting ground. If you leave her where she is, she will be forever in her territory that she knew so well, probably better than you did!

If you had been able to ask her, I bet she’d have wanted to spend eternity in her own territory. Not being upheaved to a garden she doesn’t know.

CatOfHate was more bothered by being away from me than he was about moving territories. He moved to my house a couple of months after I did, left with my mum who we'd both been living with for several years, and he settled in my house within hours. Prior to him moving, he'd searched for me and cried and shunned my mother because she was the wrong human, despite being in his familiar territory. No two cats are the same and OP knows her cat best.

Miyagi99 · Today 17:21

You can bring bones but the skeleton needs to be totally clean.

Waitingfordoggo · Today 18:58

To those posters pointing out that we sometimes exhume and move human remains, and that there are companies who exhume pets- I think there is a big difference between doing this within the UK, and between countries. It should be obvious that an animal that has been deceased in the ground for a year could present hazards to health. Plants (including food stuffs) are closely monitored at borders and there are many things you can’t bring into the UK under these rules. Given that there are such strict rules around things like vegetables and cheese, I would expect there to be significant red tape and cost around importing a whole, long-deceased pet. The obvious thing to do is have the cat cremated and bring those remains back.

woollyjumperseason · Today 19:04

Waitingfordoggo · Today 18:58

To those posters pointing out that we sometimes exhume and move human remains, and that there are companies who exhume pets- I think there is a big difference between doing this within the UK, and between countries. It should be obvious that an animal that has been deceased in the ground for a year could present hazards to health. Plants (including food stuffs) are closely monitored at borders and there are many things you can’t bring into the UK under these rules. Given that there are such strict rules around things like vegetables and cheese, I would expect there to be significant red tape and cost around importing a whole, long-deceased pet. The obvious thing to do is have the cat cremated and bring those remains back.

As I stated above there is a valid process to bring exhumed pets back and I was looking to see if anyone had done it for advice

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Waitingfordoggo · Today 19:21

Oh right @woollyjumperseason. You didn’t state that- you said that there are companies that can bring the deceased pet but you didn’t mention they would do pets that had been exhumed. (I can believe that they would transport a pet which had been appropriately stored after death but am surprised they would allow people to bring a pet which has been deceased for longer and where the body has not been preserved in any way).

Oh well, hope you find a way to close this chapter that feels right to you.

Henriettina · Today 19:35

I had a pet rabbit who was buried for a few months, then dug up by a fox. There wasn’t much left, but what there was wasn’t very pleasant.

I second PP who suggested spending the money on therapy.

TTCbabynumber22025 · Today 19:38

You laid her to rest. Let her rest 💛

definitelybothered · Today 19:51

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Today 17:13

Prince Philip was entombed in the Royal Vault of St George's Chapel untl Elizabeth died, then he was moved to join her in the King George VI Memorial Chapel. George VI himself spent several years in that vault before the chapel named after him was finished. My point is that moving remains can be done and often is for royals.

I would get DCat cremated in France, if bringing her home is what you opt for. Doing so will negate all the biocontrol problems you'd otherwise face.

A bit of a bizarre argument to say because some senior Royals have been moved about a bit due to protocol (Phillip couldn’t be in that tomb before Queen Elizabeth so his first burial was always temporary until she joined him), it means it’s fine to dig up a buried pet in another country, a year after death and move their remains across borders.

I can just imagine the conversation at customs and using that Royal example as inspiration for such an mad idea.

OP - let the cat rest in peace. I think it would be way too upsetting to do what you’re thinking.

MsGreying · Today 19:55

Bring a spoonful of top soil back with you.
Remember her where you loved her. Leave her be.

HelenaWilson · Today 20:07

Prince Philip was entombed in the Royal Vault of St George's Chapel untl Elizabeth died, then he was moved to join her in the King George VI Memorial Chapel. George VI himself spent several years in that vault before the chapel named after him was finished. My point is that moving remains can be done and often is for royals.

In a vault, in coffins designed for the purpose. They weren't dug up out of the ground and their decomposed bodies moved.

Richard III was where he always had been; the car park was put on top of his burial site.

WinterCosiness · Today 20:26

MsGreying · Today 19:55

Bring a spoonful of top soil back with you.
Remember her where you loved her. Leave her be.

Yes, I was thinking maybe OP could take a cutting of the plant growing nearest to her cat's burial spot. But, taking a bit of soil is a good idea too.

OP, as a huge animal lover myself and a very spiritual person who believes in life after death, honestly your cat isn't there. Her spirit, her animas, is happy and free somewhere, I strongly believe. But, even if you're not a believer in the afterlife, she can live on in your memory.
To me what happens to the body is just to bring us comfort. More a symbolism, not actually 'them' iyswim.
I honestly couldn't consider exhuming a body - of any species. It would feel disrespectful, and just unpleasant.
But, I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved furry friend or family member is so hard I know (been there loads) Maybe you could do some sort of little memorial after the move, to give you peace? You take lots of care 🐾💐

Clearinguptheclutter · Today 20:40

I think you need to leave your cat where she is. She is at peace there.

the only circumstance I’d consider this would be if I heard the site was about to be built over and there was a chance she would be accidentally exhumed. That said that will probably be the case everywhere eventually but hopefully not for a long time

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