Hi all, I'm going away tomorrow for ten days (first holiday in a long long time after a hard few months) and have a teenager I know well feeding my cat. She is recently 17 and her mother told me she has been keen to get part-time work while at college but has found this hard due to anxiety (she is ND). She loves animals and knows my cat well, and he loves her. So I'm keen for this to give her confidence but also some money in her pocket. On the other hand my annual income is relatively low.
She will be coming everyday (at any time that suits her) and topping up his food and water bowls, giving him some dreamies and some strokes and rubs. She has said she'd love to bring some work or a book and hang out with him for a while and I said that would be amazing. I've shown her how the TV works, given her the wifi password and told her to help herself to drinks/snacks and borrow any books she wants etc.
Her younger brother was REALLY keen to water my plants etc if the weather is warm and dry while we're away. That will probably be needed every two/few days weather-depending and only for the outdoor ones.
I was thinking of giving her £100 and giving him £20? But is that too little? Should I go a little higher? I don't want to give them equal amounts (it was her gig initially and he is only 12) but I also don't want to cause arguments.
Any advice or suggestions?