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Cat losing control of legs- help please

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KatieBee25 · 18/03/2025 20:11

Hi all, need some help/ advice regarding our indoor cat Milo (12 year old indoor cat)

we took him to the vet's about a week ago as he wasn't eating, he doesn't jump up anymore , wasn't leaving his cat bed, lethargic and wobbly on his legs. Vet diagnosed him with dehydration after doing some bloods (all blood work was ok) so he spent the day on fluids via a drip and he seemed to perk up a bit... we've been adding lots of water to his food and he's using the litter tray so we know he's not dehydrated anymore,

Over the weekend he took another turn, same as before reluctance to eat his food- wouldn't finishing it and was seeming to lose control of his back legs, just seemed sad, not jumping up anywhere and just spending all his time hiding in his cat bed but not even settling . So we decided his quality of life is suffering so probably time to think about putting him to sleep -

HOWEVER Monday comes around and he's much happier again! Meowing (happily) calling for food, eating, seems more perky , enjoying a fuss and a stroke (still not jumping up but maybe that's because his age)

But tonight (Tuesday) he came out of his car bed for food and completely lost control of all his legs! Literally like Bambi on ice. We had to carry him over to his food bowl, after he'd eaten with help to stand, he's fine again?! Again as in fine I mean, he can walk around.. maybe slightly wobbly / weak but nothing majorly worrying . He still won't jump anywhere but he doesn't seem on deaths door.

I've no idea what to do as he's a very timid cat and hates the vet's, so don't want to put him through lots of tests (we don't have insurance for him so can't afford lots of investigations) but I don't like the idea of him being in any pain. When he does lose control of his legs he doesn't seem in pain just confused as to why he can't use them.

I will attach a photo for you to see what he went like when he did lose control of his legs, bless him. They literally just seem to slip and slide away from him. Any advice welcome 🙏🏻 x

Cat losing control of  legs- help please
Cat losing control of  legs- help please
Cat losing control of  legs- help please
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caringcarer · 19/03/2025 17:29

My DS's cat had a series of mini strokes and went like this but perked up in between. We bought him tuna in spring water which was his absolute favourite and a cat yoghurt which he liked to lick. He had an appointment and my DS took him to be PTS on the Monday morning. He was over 18 and we didn't want him in pain or confused. He was a lovely friendly boy, and my DS said he was like his best friend. Buried in garden in his favourite spot. Large cat montage of photos of him through his life from a kitten to an old boy, in our hall so it's the first thing we see when we come home each day.

KatieBee25 · 19/03/2025 17:58

caringcarer · 19/03/2025 17:29

My DS's cat had a series of mini strokes and went like this but perked up in between. We bought him tuna in spring water which was his absolute favourite and a cat yoghurt which he liked to lick. He had an appointment and my DS took him to be PTS on the Monday morning. He was over 18 and we didn't want him in pain or confused. He was a lovely friendly boy, and my DS said he was like his best friend. Buried in garden in his favourite spot. Large cat montage of photos of him through his life from a kitten to an old boy, in our hall so it's the first thing we see when we come home each day.

That's so lovely. I will make sure to make tomorrow a special day for him with lots of love and treats ❤️

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JanglingJack · 19/03/2025 18:12

Ohhh, I know, it's so sad. Best decision.

There's just no words ❤️

glitterturd · 19/03/2025 19:12

I'm so sorry but better a day too soon than a day too late.

JanglingJack · 21/03/2025 10:41

Thinking of you, your family and your beautiful cat today @KatieBee25 .

❤️

Frenchfemme · 21/03/2025 12:20

It is never easy, but you have made the best decision possible in a very sad situation. Sending love ❤️ to you and Milo today.

KatieBee25 · 21/03/2025 13:15

JanglingJack · 21/03/2025 10:41

Thinking of you, your family and your beautiful cat today @KatieBee25 .

❤️

Thanks so much for thinking of us. Had Milo put to sleep this morning. Was the kindest thing, he was off his food and losing control of his legs more and more. It was very peaceful and I was with him ❤️

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JanglingJack · 21/03/2025 17:15

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