Hi, new to this and unsure if correct to ask or not or if I am going to be the one worse off and have a lot of stigma towards me because I'm questioning the breed XL bully or XL pocket bully.
The problem being is my ex and his partner of few years (who they both hardly see my child) have now gone and got an XL bully along with another puppy. Now I hear all the time it's how the dogs are raised but I don't believe this I believe it in the dogs nature as they are dogs and every dog has it's traits and the breeds are all different and not one breed is different from it's own kind. So the XL bully has these traits and it's just going to take something to trigger there temperament. Now I know with my ex he was actually abusive towards my pet by physically grabbing her by the neck as a puppy and chucking her outside along with other things too (yes he was an abuser in our relationship, hence the "ex") so I know for a fact the pups they have got will be brought up under those circumstances as he is not a changed man at all and his partner is the same mentality as him and basically both cut from the same cloth as in the way they view things in life, I only know this as was a years for a court order for my little one and my ex now gets a few hours every other week with my child but unfortunately that has always been with her injecting herself on my child also. The problem now with this is she has said to my child to go to hers to see these dogs and I am wondering if I have a say in this at all and also considering the XL bully is a puppy the now, just to note the ex and his new partner also have her own children which I am confused at also as why would any women knowing about the breeds go and buy one for her home that has young children staying there. I am at a loss in what to do or think as there is a court order that must be complied with hence why I've turned to here to ask for advice.
My child has also let it be known time and time again he does not want to go with them even before the court order he does not like father because the way he has been treating him and it continues to be the same, my child has let if be known he does not want to go to her house or any interest in it that's before even known about these dogs and I feel it may have been there way to try convince my child to go there but my child was adamant which to be honest in my eyes is now a blessing in disguise.
Thanks.
Please be kind if you are in favour of the opposite side, I am just wondering others opinions and if anything I can do about situation if child is taken to her house under these circumstances.