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6 yr old dog and I can't seem to connect with the vet to get to the best outcome

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FinallyMovingHouse · 22/08/2024 10:11

Hi all,

I have a 6 yr old, very large breed dog. He's had food allergies for years, but all well controlled on hypoallergenic food. He also gets what we think are recurrent soft tissue injuries of his front ankle areas on both legs (although mainly right) for the last 3 yrs, and after a scan with a specialist last year to make sure, they concur with the soft tissue diagnosis with a small amount of arthritis starting; no biggie they said and nothing more to do.

He had a bad allergic reaction to what we now think is longer grass (after being fine for the last 6 yrs) about 3 weeks ago and after piriton didn't touch the sides, we took him to the vets. He also, quite coincidentally had a sore front leg on the same day. The vet that we saw (not our usual) asked if we were insured, looked at his skin, squeezed his paw hard (he yelped) and then promptly said he needs monthly injections of cytopoint and librela. She then tried to make him sit still for the injections and he wouldn't (he hates them and is not tough at all!) so I was then sent out of the room whilst 2 nurses and her then injected him. He was so bad by this point that she's now given trazodone and gabapentin to 'calm him down' for the next lot. He was also given steroids to reduce the rection that his body was having. Unfortunately these gave him uncontrollable weeing incontinence so he ended up more miserable than when he'd first been in. DH is very annoyed that I felt railroaded into the injections/treatment and is definitely not happy about having to calm the dog for the injections that we're not even certain we want to continue with.

I was back for a 2 week review today and despite trying to explain at length and multiple times that:
a. we're not sure on the cytopoint, as suspect that it's grass, hence can keep away from long grass and avoid the reaction.
b. his legs are fine and he's not been in pain since the day after the vet visit, so definitely not happy with the librela.
c. definitely not happy with having to calm the dog with drugs to get a monthly injection, esp if we're not sure he actually needs the bloody things, she seemed to galactically miss my point on every turn. "We can make him calm, we can take him to the car park, we can give him lots of treats, you can feed him a 1/4 of his food so he's starving and won't notice the injections". She also suggested that instead of the librela for the (imaginary) arthritis, she can give a pain killing injection. FFS - he's not in pain and I don't want any injections! She kept saying, we don't have to do it monthly, we can add on 2 days each time to increase the time between - again, so not the point.

I'm trying not to be one of those 'oh my poor baby' owners, who can't see what's best for their pet, despite an expert telling them, but she is really annoying me now and I don't know if it's me/DH being daft or her just not listening. She said that we can go onto apoquel for the allergies instead (I know the side effects and not great, but would do it if very severe), but she doesn't like it as much as cytopoint.

Does anyone have any personal experience of this kind of scenario and please tell me what you did. I definitely want what's best for the dog but don't want to make his life miserable every month for a small gain that we could get by just changing his walks.

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Beamur · 22/08/2024 10:15

You can say no to the vet.

FinallyMovingHouse · 22/08/2024 10:21

Thanks Beamur, yes, I know, but want to make sure that it's for the right reasons and not just because DH or I didn't like how the vet dealt with it.

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FountainsOfPens · 22/08/2024 10:31

Ultimately it doesn't matter - you don't trust your vet. That's the nub of it.

You cannot go on making medical decisions with a vet you don't trust so look around for a new one. It gives you a second opinion and also the chance to start the relationship afresh.

CLEO42 · 22/08/2024 10:35

Time to find a new vet. Try to find a not-for-profit vet (like Animal Trust) or a university vet school practice

MoreOfADogPerson · 22/08/2024 10:37

I would definitely be changing vets.

MyGirlDaisy · 22/08/2024 10:48

I would also go to a different vet, they are the experts but you know your dog. You and your vet need to be able to work together and you need to trust and be happy with them.

WaitingForMojo · 22/08/2024 10:52

Be very careful with librela and research the neurological effects. Especially the dogs suffering vestibular dysfunction as a result. My dog had to be pts with severe vestibular and neurological symptoms a fortnight after the first injection and I’m not convinced there isn’t a link. I dismissed these things as silly anti-vaxxer stuff until it actually happened. I’m anything but an anti vaxxer and I give my dogs bravecto etc. But I’d be very careful with librela

FinallyMovingHouse · 22/08/2024 13:02

Thanks for the info all and that seems like a pretty unanimous decision!

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