I dont really know what else to add really, I'm very teary wondering how I make the decision?
Vets is conflicting, in December he was booked in to PTS on their advice. He bounced back (not fully) but to a point where on his next two vet visits they told me he wasn't yet ready but I will need to start thinking about his quality of life.
His just become abit distant. Wants to be with us bit not close enough for us to touch, though once he does let us he enjoys it and lets out a purr sort of noise. His mobility has been deteriorating for a whole with his back legs frequently going. It takes him a while now to get comfortable, he finds it hard to sit and when he lays down it takes him a long time and his back legs never fully go down. He has become very incontinent which I just accepted as part of his old age bit now he is pooing in his sleep and laying in it. He wants to sleep alot, most of the day but will be quite unsettled during the night.
I know I'm going to be told it's time and my heart is broken as there is still so many qualities that the vet said he will no longer want to do but still does.
How did you make the decision it was time? Please be kind, I'm heartbroken at the thought and scared there is still some time/happiness left in him