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Hamster dying

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DyslexiaMum1 · 04/09/2023 06:59

Hello, our hamster is about 19 months old and clearly reaching end of life. A couple of months ago she started losing hair in small patches. As she was only 18 months old, I took her to the vet and we tried a mite treatment. It hasn't made any difference and the vet said the next step was to scan for polycystic ovaries but I declined as I felt it was too invasive, traumatic and expensive for an 18 month old hamster. She has been chipper and playful and friendly as normal since.

Anyway, the last 36 hours she has just been curled up on top of her bedding (not burrowed) and I can see her breatjing/heartbeat. Her eyes are nearly completely closed. She only.moves if disturbed and she only potters a few paces then returns to her spot she seems to be staying in. She doesn't seem able to use the tube which takes her to her food and water so I have been offering her water from a syringe every couple of hours and giving her her favourite bits from her hamster mix. She is sometimes enjoying a bit of water.

I don't know whether to take her to be put to sleep or not. I think the trip to the vets would be distressing for her especially as she isn't displaying signs of distress at home in her cage; just a very clear shutting down of her body. On the other hand, how much of a stoic is she and is she masking her pain? If I keep her at home am I being cruel and prolonging her suffering.

I know she is only a hamster but she has the most wonderful personality and has been such a special little addition to our family. I'd hoped she may make 2 years in age but it doesn't look like it was meant to be. She belongs to my autistic son and she gave us something to bond over together when he was having a very difficult time. I just want to make the right decision at the end of her life and do right by her.

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illiterato · 04/09/2023 07:08

We had similar- the lying on top of the bedding- although he would then be a bit livelier for a bit so I didn’t PTS and let nature take its course as he hated being taken out of his enclosure and didn’t seem distressed, just tired. It took about a week from when he first started sleeping on the surface to when he died. I guess in the wild they’d just get picked off by predators at that stage.

And you’re right. They are never just a hamster. I was v fond of ours. He really had a personality.

shockthemonkey · 04/09/2023 07:09

Hi OP, it’s a long time since I had hamsters but I suspect she will hardly notice a trip to the vets. Small cardboard box nice and dark with lots of deep bedding. I would take her. Sorry, this is sad for you and your son.

hamsterballs · 04/09/2023 07:10

Aww I'm sorry. I would take her to the vets, they could check her over and make the decision for you.X

millymae · 04/09/2023 07:29

I think I’d let her fade away naturally if she appears not to be in any distress.
My mum has never forgotten taking our hamster which had kidney issues to the vet to be pts. Firstly it cost more than it did to buy him and secondly although he’d never once bit any of us he did manage to give the vet a nasty nip before they could administer the injection

Tiespin · 04/09/2023 07:33

I took my daughter's hamster to be pts when she was clearly dying. I didn't want to think she might be suffering. It cost about £30.

Honeyroar · 04/09/2023 07:37

I’d think about taking her in case she was suffering. Just because hamsters are cheap to buy doesn’t mean they shouldn’t have treatment.

DyslexiaMum1 · 04/09/2023 07:41

The silly thing is....I agree with all of you! That's why I am so torn. I'm in a comfortable enough position to pay for her to be pts so it isn't a question of finances, more about the right thing to do by her.

When we took her to the vets six weeks ago she was distressed by it and constantly scrabbling at her container. But she was her normal lively self at that point and now is very very sleepy so I'm not sure she'd be as aware of it as a PP said.

I'll call the vets when they open and ask for advice.

Thanks all

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DyslexiaMum1 · 04/09/2023 12:58

Just to update, we took her in on the vets advice. It turned out she had pyometra, an infection of the uterus as she had started to have pus as discharge.The vet offered antibiotics and pain relief but felt overall to put to sleep was kindest.

I'm glad I didn't wait and keep her at home in any pain (even though her behaviour did not suggest any pain at all). I always think "a day too early is always better than a day too late" and always used that premise with our cats and dogs but these small animals are a different kettle of fish. I'm glad I took her. Maybe this thread will help someone else in the future x

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Tiespin · 04/09/2023 14:53

You did right by her. X

hamsterballs · 04/09/2023 14:57

You did the right thing. Sorry 😞 x

flyingsaucersandjellybeans · 04/09/2023 14:59

I think you did the right thing and I'm so sorry for your loss

Lullaby1973 · 04/09/2023 15:47

Sorry for your loss.
We have guinea pigs and they are part of the family. It's always such a tough decision when deciding whether to PTS or hang on another day. You made the right decision

OldTinHat · 04/09/2023 16:37

These decisions are so hard but you've shown the ultimate act of love for that little fluff bundle.

I hope your DS will be okay. And you of course.

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