Hello, I'd really appreciate your opinions on this please. AIBU?!
Eight weeks ago we brought home our beautiful new puppy. It was arranged through a rescue service as the previous owners could no longer take proper care of her due to new health issues. I really do appreciate their difficult situation, and the stress and loss they probably felt/feel, however am starting to wish we could move on now. In the run up to them accepting us as a new home for pup, they had lots, and lots, of questions, far beyond the standard, such as: will she ever be left on her own? Will she sleep upstairs with you? Are all the family as keen and kind as you? (Pup was going to be my puppy), how many feeds a day will she have? Etc. They and the rescue service knew that we are very experienced dog owners with much knowledge and a brilliant home environment for a dog of this breed, but they continued to imagine up new questions until the very last minute. Then they googled our address and didn't find it so phoned me to ask for proof and photos. Anyway, we eventually brought pup home, and eight weeks later they still text about once or twice a week to ask if she's still okay. I've always replied with lots of reassuring information and sent many photos, but I'm ready to leave that behind and just enjoy my puppy. I've not minded keeping in touch too much so far, and I'd never normally not respond to anyone, but their persistence and questions make me feel untrusted and anxious, and that one day they'll turn up and want her back!! I really just want to not respond but that might make them even more persistent! What are your thoughts please?