A few weeks ago a neighbour mentioned to my in laws that our cat was going to their house and that they had been feeding him. We told them not to feed him as he is well fed here and that feeding him will make him return and we put a 'do no feed' collar on him. They made a comment on how lovely he is, and that it was nice as their cat died not long ago.
This evening it's all gone a bit sour - the neighbour has knocked at my in laws house (they live on our street, next door to them) angrily saying 'it can't go on anymore, my wife is in tears as he keeps coming back and she's upset about our dead cat, they need to keep him locked in'.
I'm in shock and quite angry! What did they expect from feeding him? Really do not know how to respond to this, we've told them they shouldn't feed him and to just ignore him a few times now. I want to knock their door and have a word but no idea what to say other than what we have done already. What a weird situation!