My dog is being PTS tomorrow

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Just that really. He’s 16 years old and it’s all come as a bit of a shock. He’s been with me through everything (heartbreak, moving out, marriage, my first baby) and I don’t think it’s hit me yet.

I know it’s the right thing but it’s so sudden and I don’t really know what to do with myself 😔

I'm so sorry. I hope you can find some comfort in having come to a decision that is best for your dog. Lots of hugs with them tonight if you can.

I’m really sorry.

This happened to me 8 years ago.

On the morning of, before he went, he got some rotassirie chicken, and some chocolate buttons, as well as lots of cuddles and love

Cuddle him loads and tell him how much you love him. And maybe give him a special favourite meal or snack and take him on a walk he likes so can do lots of sniffing. And when he is no longer with you, reframe this as being grateful for what you have had with him, not what you are losing. That helped me when I lost my lovely dog. Sorry you are losing him.

So sorry. I went through this with our oldie a few months ago. It was definitely the right thing to do but that doesn’t stop the heartbreak.
I will follow this thread to support you and I’m sure others will too.
There was something that helped a lot. A MNer ages ago said her dog was pts eating chicken from her hand. I did the same with ours and I’m so grateful to that person for the idea. He had a last walk and treats, and in the surgery I sat with him and gave him bits of chicken in between cuddles and fuss. He went to sleep happy.
This is such a terrible thing to go through as a dog owner, but you can maybe take some comfort in knowing that although you’re going through the pain of losing him, he’ll never go through the pain of losing you.

I'm so sorry, but you're doing the right thing xx

im crying for you, which isn't a lot of use to you!! But you're not alone xx

I'm so sorry. We lost one of our cats last year.

Grief is an absolute cow so all I can say is take care of yourself. If it means cancelling plans, calling in sick, do it if it's what you need to do in that moment. You may feel you want to do all of the stuff to keep busy. That's ok too .

You might be asked at the vets certain questions. It depends on the vet I suppose but I'm only mentioning it now because it took Mr Adele back a bit and he was upset. It wasn't the questions as such - he just wasn't expecting it. So you might be asked if you want some kind of memento. They may have different options for you. Xxx

I am so sorry, this is the worst part of having pets. Some great suggestions from others. Remember it's the last kind thing you can do for your lovely ddog. Look after yourself.

Thanks everyone, I wish i could give him a lovely meal but he won’t eat anything which is what prompted the vet visit. He’ll be happy with a cuddle I hope and maybe he’ll have a biscuit.

the vet was lovely and very kind but it doesn’t make it easier does it. I just am so glad he’s had a lovely life and I couldn’t have asked for a better friend xxx

We had this a few weeks ago. We had no choice on the day, he was really struggling.

The only thing that I'd say is stay in with him, cuddling him as it happens.

I'm so glad that DDog had his mum and dad with him when he died.

I'm so sorry, my heart goes out to you. It's such a hard thing to go through. It happened to us recently, so is all still a bit raw. As well as the other advice, I'd say it is worth thinking about what you want to happen afterwards. You don't have to leave him at the vet afterwards, unless that's what you want.

We chose to bring our old boy home after he was PTS (he was in his bed, because he couldn't walk) and just had some quiet time sitting with him that day (and yes, crying, mainly) and then later on we took him to a nearby pet crematorium, which I'd already checked out and is run by such a lovely person.

We had some more time with him there, and then we left him, and I picked up his ashes the next day. It's not for everyone, I know, but several people have said to me since that they didn't know it was even an option, so I wanted to pass it on.

Thinking of you x

The amount of pain you feel directly correlates to how much you love him. He'll have always known, and felt safe in that love for all the years he's been with you.

Lucky boy to have had such love, and to have you feel so much for him now.

Thinking of you. Dogs are the best. Appreciate the last bit of time with him and all the time you had together. 💐

Oh OP I'm so sorry. We put our ddog to sleep just before Christmas, he had been quite poorly for some time and was getting on in years and it was definitely the right time - that said, it was the hardest decision we have ever made. We now have his ashes in a little urn in the living room by the fire where he was happiest, and although the grief is horrible and hard, I felt a sense of relief once it was over and done with - both for him and the feeling that the decision was done and not hanging over us.

Sending you love and best wishes, it's a hard time

I had my boy pts last a week ago yesterday.

He just wouldn't eat anymore no matter what we offered him. He was tired and quite possibly in pain...

It was the right thing to do for him but I miss him terribly. I got his ashes back on Friday so I'm planning to do a lovely little memorial for him with my DC's.

He was nearly 14. I'm ever so sorry op it's awful and I can't take that away but I can say like with others on this thread that I do know how you feel.

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I am so sorry. We have a 16 year old boy who is being pts next week too. We've held on but think his quality of life is too poor now. Much like you he's been with us through having all my children, good times and horrendous times. He's been my guard dog and my best friend. I really share your heartbreak.
Sending all my love x

So sorry OP. 16 years is a good age for any dog, but it’s no consolation to you. Lots of cuddles for you both, and let yourself grieve. That’s a big hole he will leave.

Dogs are so very special, they always known when we need them most. Hugs fro me & my lovely boy. 🐾

It's heart wrenching. If only they could be by our side a while longer. All you can do is allow yourself time to grieve and don't let anyone try to minimise the way you feel. They are much loved companions. Once the hurt subsides you'll be able to picture the times you had with happiness instead of sorrow. Big hugs to you and your lovely boy.

I hope your lovely memories bring you some comfort and the knowledge that your darling precious dog was loved and cared for all their life with you.

Thanks so much everyone, all of your messages were so lovely to read.

he passed today at 2.30pm, it was very peaceful and I know in my heart it was the right thing for him but I’m heartbroken 💔