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Can anyone help before dd gets her heart broken ?

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nutcracker · 13/12/2007 20:51

Right, last autumn we got a Jack Russel puppy, he was very very lively right from the start and even vets comentted on just how lively he was even for a pup.

It soon became very clear that having him and 3 young children wasn't a great combination as the dog thought that every minute of every day was play time, and my youngest couldn't move at all without the dog being all over him.

After a couple of months we decided to rehome him but only if we could give him to someone we knew because Dd2 was bessotted with him and he was slightly better with her than anyone else.

Eventually my dad said he would have him. He had had to have his own dog put down that summer and I was secretly quite pleased as I knew it would get my dad back out of the house etc.

The dog (Ozzie) is now 18mths old and not really any better behaviour wise than when he was a young pup. He is extremely excitable and when my dad has visitors he will not calm down and ends up either having to be muzzled or put in his cage/outside etc.

My dad has tried classes, although didn't stay for very long and we have also got him several books on training but nothing seems to work.

My dad has just rung me to say that he cannot cope with him anymore and he is going to have to rehome him. He said he is just too excitable for him at his age (he is 62) and that it's just too much. Any training methods anyone suggests seems to fall on deaf ears as my dad will only try for a bit and if it doesn't work he gives up.

I feel really responsible as my dad only had him because we couldn't cope with him, and if my dad has to let him go then dd2 will be so upset as she won't be able to see him at all.

I know she will ask if we can have him back, and practically it isn't really an option but I feel so resposible.

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nutcracker · 13/12/2007 21:00

Anyone ? Before my dad takes him the dogs home (joke, i hope)

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FairyTaleOfNewYork · 13/12/2007 21:02

is there anyway you can have him back and do training with him?

nutcracker · 13/12/2007 21:05

I don't think so no, the nearest training place is basically no where near me and my garden isn't secure enough and there is no way I can afford new fencing.

Plus he does nip sometimes, playfully not nastily, so I would need to watch him so closley all the time.

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nutcracker · 13/12/2007 21:43

Have just emailed a dog trainer who comes to your home. It will probably be too expensive but they charge a set fee for however many sessions it takes to get the dog right.

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beautifulgirls · 13/12/2007 23:12

It sounds to me like you need a qualified behaviourist here. I would contact your vet and get a referral for one to one consultations. They usually come out to the home too. If you have pet insurance and go through the vet to an approved therapist this should be covered under the majority of policies too so will then be a much cheaper option than the trainer.
I am not suggesting the trainers are not good - it is just there is more than teaching the dog to sit and stay here and behaviourists deal with such situations far more than trainers do.

hercules1 · 14/12/2007 17:28

I would let him take him to a dogs home. At least that way there is more chance he is housed in a permanent home rather than coming to you for a while and then having to be rehoused if it doesnt work out again.
THe more he is moved around the more problems he will have.
DOgs need lots of time. We have 3 but someone at home all the time.

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