We currently have a male neutered Chihuahua (Oscar) - ten months old. Female chihuahua (Lady) 5 months old. Female Pug (Molly)- 4 months old. We also have three cats. The truth is, we only got the younger two dogs because I was feeing 'motherly' or something, turns out Im pregnant. I cant get rid of the dogs really, Im a huge animal lover (veggie etc) and am a half trained vet nurse. We have tried everything from those training mats to a crate(cage). The now spend most of their time in the crate (as dogs wont 'toilet'where they sleep) and I take them into the back garden for ten minutes an hour and give them a treat each time they 'go'. But is it cruel to keep them in a crate for so long? How long should this method take? Does anyone have any 'magic' tips that worked? I have a 3 yr old ds, and another due in April. Were trying to sell the house, decorate, so this really is the last thing I need. I cant cope with it much longer and it gets me down.