So me and my partner were really excited to get a dog. We have done plenty of research and found a breed of dog suited to our family.
We searched on pets4homes and found a seller with a reasonably priced litter of puppies available. At the time they were about 2/3 weeks old. The pictures on the ad were limited but the description stated the puppies will be vaccinated and microchipped, so me and my partner decided to go and have a look.
As soon as we set off the seller told us to come to a different address to which he had originally sent to us. It was the seller who was keen for us to visit in the first place. The address he gave us wasn't too far from the first address he had provided. When we arrived we stayed outside in the garden for covid reasons, this was my choice, so I didn't see inside the house. The seller brought out the two pups we were interested in and the mum. We chose the pup we wanted to give a forever home and we left. He didn't ask for a deposit at the time, he was happy to hold the dog for a few days. About 3-4 days later we sent our deposit across with promised updates regularly through the week.
Since we have put the deposit down I have not had a picture that is recent. I am constantly chasing the breeder for photos and what I receive is definitely not just taken, some have been screenshot from his Facebook. He says he will send the updates on certain days of the week, which is strange, I would have thought if his pet just had a litter of puppies, he'd be around them every day so could send them whenever. I don't expect daily updates but I expect something in a week. Anyway we don't receive updates even on the days promised.
My partner rang him today, he doesn't know my partners number, and he answered the phone. Baring in mind this shows he is ignoring my messages. He said he had sent an update and I must not have received it. He then said he would send one today. Nothing has come through, I've been messaging him and nothing.
He's reposted his advert on pets4homes again, again with limited pictures but different ones this time but the ad post is still the same.
I feel like he's just taken off with our money and even if he hasn't, I was hoping for communication and updates for peace of mind. We have a name for the dog and wanted him to maybe call the dog by that name etc. Idk, the nice things.
Am I over worrying? Or does anyone else find this strange? What could be going on? I'm worried even if we get the dog it might not be healthy. I don't trust he is looking after the dogs properly as he's showing no interest in me. It's a total change to how he was when I enquired and visited the pup.
I'm getting the impression he himself isn't the breeder...
I've asked for my deposit back just now although I expect it's long gone and I'll get ignored. But he didn't state it is non refundable? I'm feeling really fed up and stressed about this now.