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Curious about flexischooling?

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flexischoolingUK · 30/05/2025 14:34

Did you know that there’s a legal arrangement called flexischooling where a child of compulsory school age can legally attend school part time and be educated at home the rest of the time?

Flexischooling is not a parental right. Parents need to make a formal flexischooling request and, in England and Wales, the headteacher must agree. Unfortunately, as most headteachers have never heard of flexischooling, informal verbal request are usually immediately shot down.

We have a facebook support group, Flexischooling Families UK, where we support parents to request flexischooling.

We’ve also launched a petition asking that flexischooling be given its own attendance code, which we hope would make it easier for headteacher to agree 🤞

Please consider signing if you’re at all interested in the idea of flexischooling:

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/708358

if you have any questions about flexischooling, please let me know 🙂

Petition: Introduce a distinct attendance code for flexischooling (Code F).

We want the Department for Education to introduce a new attendance code for flexischooling (Code F). We want this code to act in a similar way to code B (educated off site) in that it would not negatively impact attendance data, recognising that the ch...

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/708358

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Babyboomtastic · 31/05/2025 23:54

We do flexi, though not formally (long story). Essentially for medical reasons my child is not able to attend full time, so does mornings in school. After sufficient rest, I sit down with him one to one, and we do work at home, anywhere from 15-45m depending on energy levels. It's based on the curriculum he follows in school, and the subjects they do in the afternoon, but not rigidly, so we also focus on areas of his interests.

We record the work in a folder and hand it in periodically so the school can look at it if they wish. We gather about an A4 folder worth a term. We can take things further and go into more depth than they can in school, and have ongoing projects, such as studying the life cycle of plants he grows himself.

It works really well. It was, and is for medical reasons, but I feel it's beneficial for his education as he's getting one to one attention, and a curriculum geared specifically for him, rather than being just one of 30.

It's a good half way house between full time school.and home schooling.

Saracen · 31/05/2025 23:58

legoplaybook · 31/05/2025 23:42

There are quite a few schools that market themselves as flexi schooling friendly - they would usually have 3 core days where all pupils attend, and then flexibility for children to attend or home ed on the other 1-2 days.

This particularly works for undersubscribed schools as parents are often willing to travel some distance for flexi school so it boosts the school's numbers and funding.

Thanks!

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:00

Saracen · 31/05/2025 23:33

Here's something else I wonder about. I can understand why it's awkward for schools to manage having just a few flexischooled children. It must be hard for teachers to remember who is going to be in and who isn't, whether they've missed anything, and (at primary) to lose the opportunity to shift the timetable around a bit on an ad hoc basis.

Do you know of schools which actively offer/encourage children to have certain specific times/days off en masse? Years ago, I heard of a primary school near me where a group of parents had campaigned together for flexischooling in one particular class. Something like ten of the Y1 class were always off on Wednesdays.

That seemed like a win/win. The teacher made sure not to timetable core lessons on that day. On that day all the kids, whether at home or at school, had better adult-to-child ratio and were able to do things which otherwise wouldn't be possible. IIRC the school did some fun small-group projects with the kids who were in, and worked with some of them who needed extra help.

Schools get full funding for part-time pupils, don't they, so such an arrangement frees up more resources for the children who are in full-time. If a significant number of kids are flexischooled, the extra resources for the remaining kids would be noticeable. For the non-flexi children, it would be like attending private school one day a week! It puts me in mind of some keyworkers' children loving being in school during Covid lockdowns when other children weren't there, as their classes were small and relaxed.

I think the particular arrangement I described only lasted for a year or two. I don't know why.

I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s more awkward for schools with only a few flexischooling pupils. Flexischooling is not ad hoc absences, like medical appointments, the timetable is carefully planned in advance and reviewed on a regular basis. As an ex teacher I can confidently say that if it were planned for X number of pupils to be absent every Friday, that is something I could quickly grow accustomed to and plan in advance for.

Yes, there are absolutely some schools that actively advertise flexischooling! We try to avoid using the word ‘offer’, as it puts some schools into a panic, and flexischooling is always discretionary, even at schools that advertise. If the headteacher does not feel flexischooling would be in the child’s best interest, then they won’t agree.

We current have 49 schools on our flexischooling map that actively advertise flexischooling. Many of these schools have 3 core days, e.g Tuesday - Thursday. So families have a maximum of 2 flexischooling days per week. Flexischooling is optional of course, and the school is still open on Mondays and Fridays for those who want to attend for 4 days or full time.

One particular school, Huxley C is E Primary, in Cheshire, went from having only 5 pupils in 2020 to reaching full capacity last year! I believe they now have a waiting list, families are so desperate to access the flexischooling model of education!

You are absolutely correct, schools get full funding for flexischooling pupils, as the children have a full time school place, which they can return to at any point.

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MumChp · 01/06/2025 00:01

But good luck finding schools who agree to flexischooling.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:01

legoplaybook · 31/05/2025 23:42

There are quite a few schools that market themselves as flexi schooling friendly - they would usually have 3 core days where all pupils attend, and then flexibility for children to attend or home ed on the other 1-2 days.

This particularly works for undersubscribed schools as parents are often willing to travel some distance for flexi school so it boosts the school's numbers and funding.

Absolutely! We love flexischooling positive schools and have 49 of them on our flexischooling map ❤️

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Yogibearspicnic · 01/06/2025 00:02

OP clearly an AI churning bot.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:05

Thank you for sharing! Yes, these are 3 of our blue pinned schools that actively advertise flexischooling 💙 We have over 700 schools on our flexischooling map 🗺️

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flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:07

Yogibearspicnic · 01/06/2025 00:02

OP clearly an AI churning bot.

Not a bot. A (chronically ill) parent (with a lot of time on my hands 🫣) passionate about flexischooling. We have a petition going at the moment, so I’m trying to spread the word across different parenting platforms, as flexischooling isn’t something many parents have heard about. We can’t get signatures if no one knows what flexischooling even is 🙂

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legoplaybook · 01/06/2025 00:09

Yogibearspicnic · 01/06/2025 00:02

OP clearly an AI churning bot.

Nothing about the OP's posts suggest AI to me.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:19

MumChp · 01/06/2025 00:01

But good luck finding schools who agree to flexischooling.

Yes, this is absolutely a challenge 🫣 However, we have a facebook group, Flexischooling Families UK, with lots of guides and resources to help parents make the best possible request and hopefully increase their chances.

The trouble is that most schools have never even heard of flexischooling. This is because schools get no flexischooling guidance, it’s included in the Elective Home Education guidance - which schools don’t routinely read.

Most parents, who aren’t in our group, will phone round schools asking if they ‘offer’ flexischooling. In 99.9% of cases, when asked in this way, schools will say no.

  1. When parents phone up, they’ll most likely speak to an administrator. In England and Wales, flexischooling can only be agreed by the headteacher. So you need to communicate with the decision maker.
  2. An office manager is unlikely to know what flexischooling is, but what they will know is that they currently have no pupils doing it, so they’ll feel confident enough to say ‘we don’t do that here.’ The trouble is, the school COULD do it, they COULD legally agree, but the parent hasn’t made their request in a way that gets them past the gatekeeper.
  3. Even speaking directly to the headteacher is not an ideal approach. Many headteachers haven’t heard of flexischooling. If you put a headteacher on the spot about something they know nothing about (whilst they consider themselves to be an expert in education) you’ll more than likely get a defensive response and get no further than that 🫣

We have a step by step guide on how we recommend parents approach schools, we have template letters, leaflets written by The Centre for Personalised Education and lots of other tips and advice 🙂

We have over 700 schools on our map where parents have told us they’ve had flexischooling agreed. Of course, not every request is successful, but we do our best to educate and empower parents in the hope of increasing their chances of success 🤞

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flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 00:19

legoplaybook · 01/06/2025 00:09

Nothing about the OP's posts suggest AI to me.

Thank you 🙂

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PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 06:40

I think it’s also important to recognise that flexi schooling won’t work for a majority of families. If the child is unwell or finds full time school challenging for other reasons (my friend has her son on a 60% timetable as he is ND and finds school difficult) it can be the only option to keep a child in school so should be supported.

But otherwise this is really only an option for privileged families- either privileged in time with a carer available all day or in money with the budget to enroll a child in an expansion programme. So while of course for fairness all parents should be aware of the option, in my experience families who aren’t doing this don’t always have the choice.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 11:19

PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 06:40

I think it’s also important to recognise that flexi schooling won’t work for a majority of families. If the child is unwell or finds full time school challenging for other reasons (my friend has her son on a 60% timetable as he is ND and finds school difficult) it can be the only option to keep a child in school so should be supported.

But otherwise this is really only an option for privileged families- either privileged in time with a carer available all day or in money with the budget to enroll a child in an expansion programme. So while of course for fairness all parents should be aware of the option, in my experience families who aren’t doing this don’t always have the choice.

I agree, there’s no one size fits all model of education. Full time school will be right for many, full time home education is the best fit for others.

Flexischooling is certainly a niche, hybrid education model.

Following your comment, I am curious about how many flexischooling parents teaching children themselves at home, or outsource this by paying for tutors or other programs. I will do a poll in our group to find out.

Flexischooling is rarely a 50/50 split to time between learning at home and school. In the vast majority of cases, children are learning at home 1 afternoon or 1 day per week, so the majority of the week is in school. For parents that work part time or work full time but 1 day at the week and have a day off during the week, flexischooling may be doable.

But you’re absolutely right, not everyone is in a privileged position to make flexischooling work - perhaps they are time poor, and unavailable even for 1 afternoon during school hours. Perhaps the parent is struggling with their own mental health, and does not currently have the capacity for flexischooling at this time. Taking responsibility, even only part time, for educating your child can be physically and mentally demanding and may be a challenge for chronically ill or disabled parents, this is my situation and would not have been possible without the support of able bodied grandparents, so I am very grateful and aware of my own privileged situation, to have willing, able bodied support. Requesting flexischooling and getting it agreed can be challenging. Our group does its best to make the process easier, but parents still need to do extensive research, write a formal request letter (with a template as a guide) and then convince a headteacher that they have the capacity to teach their own child. For some parents all of that feels completely overwhelming and terrifying, and that’s before parents even begin. Even getting flexischooling agreed requires certain things from parents - determination, courage, the ability to research and present themselves, confidence. Whilst becoming a parent helped me find many of these traits that I never had before, it can be very difficult to find these in yourself if you are living in fear, such as a domestic abuse situation.

in terms of the financial burden, there may well be additional costs relating to flexischooling that may be difficult, but it is not at all necessary to pay others to educate your child. Of course, it depends on the age of the child and academic level, but if a parent has the capacity - if we are expecting a child to learn something, why can an adult not also learn the same, in order to teach their child? Many home educating families follow their child’s interests, and when those interests are something the parent knows nothing about, they all learn about it together. There is a saying: the best way to learn is to teach. So in order to teach their child, parents are learning too.

There are certainly ways to reduce the cost of flexischooling. For example, in a conversation I recently had with one parent, she explained that her child was flexischooling in the afternoons, but her child was entitled to free school meals and the cost of feeding him lunch was very difficult. I suggested that he stays at school for the free school lunch and comes home afterwards. For full flexischooling days, she could speak to the school about whether they could provide a packed lunch, as schools can do when children go on school trips.

So yes, just like full time home education, flexischooling may not be a feasible option for all, but it is a legally possible and most parents don’t know that/have never even heard of it. We hope that by spreading the word we’re making parents aware of all the legal options, but we do understand flexischooling is not going to be the best fit for all 🙂

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PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 11:53

@flexischoolingUK Thanks for the measured response. There was a lot of chat about this in edinburgh recently and if I’d been a less robust parent I could have left feeling guilty about being unable to provide this opportunity for my children (my husband and I work full time). We actually discussed it for p1 but it wasn’t really an option.

Most of the people I know at our school who do it use a forest school. There are two nearby - one which is something like £80 for a full day and one which is free for children in our catchment (due to the profile of families we get extra council funding) but is afternoons only so needs someone available for transport. The only people I know who keep their children with them on a reduced timetable is people with health challenges (physical or things like autism) and the parents have no other choice so need to quit their jobs or reduce hours.

legoplaybook · 01/06/2025 11:57

The argument that you must be particularly privileged is used about home educating families too and just isn't something that I see in reality - all the home educating families I know are just average working families no different in terms of privilege to those I know who use schools.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 12:20

PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 11:53

@flexischoolingUK Thanks for the measured response. There was a lot of chat about this in edinburgh recently and if I’d been a less robust parent I could have left feeling guilty about being unable to provide this opportunity for my children (my husband and I work full time). We actually discussed it for p1 but it wasn’t really an option.

Most of the people I know at our school who do it use a forest school. There are two nearby - one which is something like £80 for a full day and one which is free for children in our catchment (due to the profile of families we get extra council funding) but is afternoons only so needs someone available for transport. The only people I know who keep their children with them on a reduced timetable is people with health challenges (physical or things like autism) and the parents have no other choice so need to quit their jobs or reduce hours.

😱 £80 a day is a lot! I don’t think that is the norm for most flexischooling families in the UK.

Yes, I think some families use forest schools, but not all and it’s not essential.

I can absolutely see why that situation (lots of other families Flexischooling but not being able to) could trigger feelings of guilt for some. There is just so much guilt in this parenting lark isn’t there! I hate competitive parenting, but it can be so hard not to compare sometimes, when we want to give our children the world. As a disabled parent, I’ve had to work really hard on focusing on the things I can do, and not on all the things I can’t do, but it’s not easy. We can each only do our best in the situation we are in.

Thank you so much for joining this conversation and adding so many thoughtful points. I’ve been involved in flexischooling for the last 9 years and you’ve given me ideas I want to go and find out more about 🥰

Even if flexischooling isn’t the right fit for your family, and even if you’re in Scotland, we’d be so grateful if you’d consider signing our petition. We’ve had lots of support from our Scottish neighbours so far (Scottish signatures still count). In fact, there’s only 1 constituency in the whole of Scotland that only has 1 signature - Nah-Eileanan an lar.

We have a full house in England and Wales, 1 constituency to go in Scotland and only 4 to go in Northern Ireland. I think getting a signature from every constituency in the UK would be an incredible feat 🙂🤞🤞🤞

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sashh · 01/06/2025 12:29

OP

Why didn't you put this in 'petitions'?

I can see headteachers being more in favour as school budgets are stretched.

@Parker231

Some children go through school not making any friends.

Babyboomtastic · 01/06/2025 12:37

PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 06:40

I think it’s also important to recognise that flexi schooling won’t work for a majority of families. If the child is unwell or finds full time school challenging for other reasons (my friend has her son on a 60% timetable as he is ND and finds school difficult) it can be the only option to keep a child in school so should be supported.

But otherwise this is really only an option for privileged families- either privileged in time with a carer available all day or in money with the budget to enroll a child in an expansion programme. So while of course for fairness all parents should be aware of the option, in my experience families who aren’t doing this don’t always have the choice.

I suspect the privilege is more on flexibility/working non standard hours rather than income necessarily.

Someone who does 3 fixed 12-hour shifts a week, may not be a high earner, but may be able to flexi. Or a WFH/hybrid office worker with a lot of control over their hours. Or someone who works 5 days a week Wednesday to Sunday, who Flexi schools on 'their weekend'

There are so many individual situations people find themselves on, and being able to make time in the week doesn't mean someone is loaded or from a particularly privileged background. Many will have had to change their working patterns to enable Flexi, because it became apparent it was needed, and in some cases, the only alternative to full time home education, so sacrifices are made.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 12:53

sashh · 01/06/2025 12:29

OP

Why didn't you put this in 'petitions'?

I can see headteachers being more in favour as school budgets are stretched.

@Parker231

Some children go through school not making any friends.

I’ll be honest. I’m completely new to Mumsnet and have no idea what I’m doing 🤣🫣

I’ve only just worked out that to reply to reply to a comment 🫣

So is there a petition section? Thank you so much for your guidance 🙂

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sashh · 01/06/2025 13:35

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 12:53

I’ll be honest. I’m completely new to Mumsnet and have no idea what I’m doing 🤣🫣

I’ve only just worked out that to reply to reply to a comment 🫣

So is there a petition section? Thank you so much for your guidance 🙂

There is, and you might like to 'report' your post and ask MNHQ to move it, they can be a little testy when people post without reading the guidelines.

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 13:36

sashh · 01/06/2025 13:35

There is, and you might like to 'report' your post and ask MNHQ to move it, they can be a little testy when people post without reading the guidelines.

Thank you! I am happy to make a new post about our petition in the petition section 😁 and leave this here for parents to discuss flexischooling as an education matter too 😁

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PurpleThistle7 · 01/06/2025 13:37

Babyboomtastic · 01/06/2025 12:37

I suspect the privilege is more on flexibility/working non standard hours rather than income necessarily.

Someone who does 3 fixed 12-hour shifts a week, may not be a high earner, but may be able to flexi. Or a WFH/hybrid office worker with a lot of control over their hours. Or someone who works 5 days a week Wednesday to Sunday, who Flexi schools on 'their weekend'

There are so many individual situations people find themselves on, and being able to make time in the week doesn't mean someone is loaded or from a particularly privileged background. Many will have had to change their working patterns to enable Flexi, because it became apparent it was needed, and in some cases, the only alternative to full time home education, so sacrifices are made.

Aye - I said time privileged or money privileged as either would be manageable but not neither.

Rycbar · 01/06/2025 14:03

Im a teacher and we’ve had quite a few requests about this recently so we’ve been looking into how we could make it work. We visited a school who did their core teaching on three days and then the other days were more for the foundation subjects or extras like forest school. Children must attend the three core days but then the other days are optional. It did seem to work really well at that school!

Elektra1 · 01/06/2025 14:05

Sounds like a nightmare for teachers, who are already overstretched and underpaid

flexischoolingUK · 01/06/2025 14:30

Rycbar · 01/06/2025 14:03

Im a teacher and we’ve had quite a few requests about this recently so we’ve been looking into how we could make it work. We visited a school who did their core teaching on three days and then the other days were more for the foundation subjects or extras like forest school. Children must attend the three core days but then the other days are optional. It did seem to work really well at that school!

Thank you for sharing your experience! Flexischooling does require some careful consideration to implement, on the parts of both parents and schools. It should not be an arrangement to enter into lightly, but it is certainly gaining in popularity with parents and schools!

We have a facebook group to support education professionals too, Flexischooling Practitioners UK. It’s not as big or as active as the parents group, but it has nearly 500 members and we are being contacted by more schools who are interested in flexischooling, and are happy to help with advertising for those who want it.

The vast majority of schools that agree to flexischooling, do so on a case by case basis. Of the 728 schools on our flexischooling map, only 49 actively advertise. So it certainly doesn’t need to be a whole school approach with a 3 core day model. But that also doesn’t mean that flexischooling arrangements are all over the place. The school can have a preference for certain days and times.

I’ve actually collected together all the school, federation and MAT flexischooling policies I could find and have made a big list of links. There’s are available in the Flexischooling Practitioners UK group, if your school would be interested. No point writing out a policy from scratch, if they’re considering doing that, when they could take the bits they like from others’ policies 🙂

I’ve also written a flexischooling written agreement/contract that parent and school are free to use/edit to meet their needs 😁

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