We don't go abroad, we holiday in the UK. Are some poster seriously suggesting that my partner who works with disadvantaged children and busts a gut doing so actually, frequently coming home with bite marks and bruises etc should use the little holiday time he gets helping out at our children's school so he can see them...except the can't as parent volunteers are not allowed to help in their child's class and at high school (elder two) they dotn have parent volunteers anyway. Its not just 9-3 as my elder two leave at 7:40 and aren't back till after 4pm due to buses and then there is homework etc. Little two leave at 8:10 and again not back till after 4pm. They are tired etc so hardly 'quality time' and then are in bed by 7pm. We take one week, not every year and go somewhere in the UK to spend time as a family. We dotn have most weekends or evening as my partner is at work, family time is really limited.
I don't pect the teacher to put the breaks on, we will help them catch up if necessary but actually they are all doing well, ahead of 'targets' etc ds2 got level 6 in his SATs, ds1 is predicted a* and a's at GCSE and we always work with the school. Five bloody days every couple of years isn't too much to ask, we avoid exam years and ask when is best and try to fit in with that. Given the school close at the sign of a bloody snowflake and our schools even close for the county show they have each year! So I will take our five days, the school has said they will not fine us and the ht wished us a good holiday, I have a letter fro, the school saying enjoy your well deserved break (which I am keeping hold off in case the local authority get arsey).
There at lots of families such as police, forces, social services affected by restricted leave, do you think their children should never go on holiday ever? How about your give up your annual holiday and go and help in a school or a Pru. See how ,much of a break that feels like.