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Overwhelming poor SPAG

74 replies

MagpiePi · 23/02/2026 10:01

The proliferation of poor SPAG that I see on this site is just overwhelming, and I despair (or should that be dispare? 🙄)

Their/they’re/there, your/you’re, to/too used randomly and interchangeably, loose instead of lose, advise instead of advice, not to mention the abuse of ‘s.

I know we are all supposed to be forgiving and not correct anyone’s errors as not everyone is well educated or has dyslexia, or will be given an inferiority complex, or, we just have to accept that language evolves and meanings change. But there has to be a limit otherwise how do you know what anyone actually means?

OP posts:
StopWindingBobStopWinding · 24/02/2026 14:58

mellicauli · 24/02/2026 14:52

There are a lot of sleep deprived people on here. Easy to write "to" instead of "too" when you've been up with wailing infant all night. Or you're simultaneously worrying about wayward teenagers and old folk with dementia. Or suffering from the fallout of some terrible life event like Waitrose running out of croissants. Maybe they are typing with fat fingers on a tiny phone.

Nd actlly, I thnk y cn wrk ou wht ppl mn wthout vry bldy lttr bing prfect!

I understand what you’re saying, but that last sentence is grammatically correct, uses the right sentence structure and the words are correctly spelled apart from the gaps. Try doing something similar using the mangled grammar and vocab you see here, and I’ll wager you’d find it much less easy.

WeaselsRising · 25/02/2026 14:00

ClickBeat · 24/02/2026 12:42

I currently have to voice dictate everything due to a disability. I don't really have a way to correct when my voice dictation gets the wrong version of words etc. .

The errors from dictation irritates me but I think these boards are best when they feel welcoming to everyone even those with dyslexia or with disabilities where they rely on voice dictation.
I don't think they want Mumsnet to become a place where you have to pass a written exam before you are allowed to use it

Except that was what mumsnet was for years (before penis beaker). It was unashamedly the site that used proper SPAG and those who didn't like it were redirected to net huns.

GameofPhones · 25/02/2026 23:08

" We shouldn't have to waste time proofreading our posts" but you expect your readers to waste their time trying to decipher your posts.

remarema · 26/02/2026 15:35

I can’t understand why people who complain that they’re “overwhelmed” by the poor standard of SpaG on MN and claim they can barely understand most of the posts don’t just stop using the site or accept that that’s just how it is.
Most of the contributors on here are real people.
They might have poor SpaG for a wide variety of different reasons or they might just not be arsed.
Either way you can’t just demand a better standard of English.
No one on here owes it to you.
Some people don’t like cursing/ strong language. They can moan about it and claim it stresses them out and ruins their experience of MN but they can’t expect everyone to accommodate them and neither can you.
Some people act like it’s compulsory to be on here and vital to be able to understand the posts. It’s really not.

UpAndDownAllTheTime · 26/02/2026 15:38

Buscobel · 23/02/2026 10:51

People on MN will generally tell you that if you can get the point of what someone is posting about, then the rest doesn’t matter.

I think that’s wrong. There are so many aids to help people to use correct spelling and grammar, that they must deliberately be ignored.

A wall of text, with no capital letter at the start of a sentence, no full stops and no paragraphs, makes it well nigh impossible to read.

There are so many aids to help people to use correct spelling and grammar, that they must deliberately be ignored.

I think you mean "that they must deliberately be being ignored". HTH!

Storynanny1 · 26/02/2026 15:41

Ivegotnothingleft · 23/02/2026 11:35

I noticed that too😅

so did I!

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 26/02/2026 15:45

newornotnew · 24/02/2026 14:32

there has to be a limit otherwise how do you know what anyone actually means?

Most readers can easily understand what is meant when someone uses 'their' in place of 'there' or 'they're', just as we can when someone speaks those words. It takes only a second to decipher.

Actually, as someone with dyslexia who sight-reads rather than decodes words it is very challenging to read posts where people are using the wrong words. I just scroll by but there are an increasing number of posts that are written so badly that I simply can’t engage at all.

Ohpleeeease · 26/02/2026 15:51

Facebook is unbelievable, I’m in a few travel groups with people who clearly have some money to spend, but one wonders what they did to get it because I can’t imagine it involved pen and paper.

UpAndDownAllTheTime · 26/02/2026 18:00

Ohpleeeease · 26/02/2026 15:51

Facebook is unbelievable, I’m in a few travel groups with people who clearly have some money to spend, but one wonders what they did to get it because I can’t imagine it involved pen and paper.

So snobby. I bet a lot of builders, electricians and plumbers etc are doing a lot better than people who rely on "pen and paper"!

ramonaquimby · 26/02/2026 18:07

FordExplorer · 23/02/2026 10:07

100000% agree! I too despair and wonder if perhaps the method used to teach SPAG is insufficient?

While we're at it, there isn't such a thing as 100000%. You can agree 100%. Or not.

Lonelycrab · 26/02/2026 21:58

Either way you can’t just demand a better standard of English

You could just overwhelm those posters perhaps Wink

So you’d be overwhelming anyone with poor spag with maybe a detention, grammar lessons and a stern talking to, tell them to buck up their ideas or something like that…

Ohpleeeease · 27/02/2026 00:45

UpAndDownAllTheTime · 26/02/2026 18:00

So snobby. I bet a lot of builders, electricians and plumbers etc are doing a lot better than people who rely on "pen and paper"!

Not snobby at all. We’ve worked with plenty of builders, electricians and plumbers with perfectly good SPAG, as evidenced in their estimates and correspondence. Why would you assume I meant tradesmen?

Q2C4 · 27/02/2026 06:54

MyThreeWords · 24/02/2026 14:57

But there has to be a limit otherwise how do you know what anyone actually means?

Does that extend to the gratuitous use of acronyms and abbreviations, @MagpiePi ?
I was baffled by your thread title and the first image that came to my mind was a vulnerable spaghetti dish, overwhelmed by something or other and requiring our sympathy.
For all the bad spelling etc on the site, none of it has caused me more than a moment's uncertainty - much as your thread title did.
The goal is communication. Spelling and grammar are the servants of that goal, not its masters. It is strange to fixate on them whilst ignoring other important ways of writing with clarity

More importantly, in contexts as informal as this it makes sense to accept that typing at speed, with the 'help' of autocorrect, is going to produce errors.

Writing is used for real-time conversational purposes now. That is very different from its use when spellings and grammar were originally formalised.
These days, what is required is the ability to switch between formal and informal contexts and apply the level of correctness that is appropriate to the context. We shouldn't have to waste time proofreading our posts any more than we have to spend time preparing our conversational input at the pub, to avoid hesitations, mispronunciations, etc.

In any case, when you complain that we are all supposed to be forgiving and not correct spellings, what, exactly, is it that you want to be able to do? If you genuinely can't understand someone, then you can ask them (or just scroll on). What more do you want to do? Keep us in detention and make us learn spellings for a test?

I don’t agree with your analogy. Writing a post on a public site, with a potential audience of hundreds, is arguably more akin in speaking terms to presenting on stage to a large audience rather than chatting with your mates in the pub.

The goal should be clear communication. We all make mistakes and I’m not suggesting we should all be hung up on fronted adverbials etc. However, taking a little time to ensure posts can be easily understood by readers without having to decipher what might have been meant is a courtesy to your intended audience.

AI does this effortlessly and its output is easier to read than a post littered with spelling and grammar errors. It would be a real shame if people prefer reading posts written by bots than a real people.

Slimtoddy · 27/02/2026 08:01

I’m going through a very stressful time at the moment, and some of those posts have genuinely made me laugh out loud, so thank you.

I was educated in a very strict environment that involved physical punishment. I still struggle with my spelling, grammar, and my times tables. I used to read an enormous amount until I had children, and I think a lot of my grammar is intuitive rather than fully understood. My spelling is better when I don’t overthink it — as soon as I start concentrating on it, I begin to struggle.

auserna · 27/02/2026 08:07

FordExplorer · 23/02/2026 10:07

100000% agree! I too despair and wonder if perhaps the method used to teach SPAG is insufficient?

You can't agree 100000% unless there are a thousand of you.

As a pedant, misuse of percentages annoys me as much as poor SPAG.

auserna · 27/02/2026 08:11

PleasantPedant · 23/02/2026 11:37

@YourFluentQuoter , I don't think they realise that they are making a mistake, so they won't think to check.

It is depressing because often people don’t understand what it is that they are saying. I agree.

Double ganger makes no sense.
doppelgänger - a supernatural double of a living person
ganger - foreman (foresperson?) on a building site.

... being cautious about correcting someone’s pronunciation because possibly they’ve only ever read the word...
I'd prefer to be corrected. Far better than continuing to make an embarrassing mistake.
If it happens to me, i say 'Thanks. I've only seen it written down.'

Edited

Double ganger makes no sense.

Presumably "Doppel" is German for double, so it sort of does.

MoonshineSally · 27/02/2026 08:18

alantitchmarshswife · 23/02/2026 19:06

I’ve a recent graduate join my team. I am by no means an expert at SPAG but this girl is on another level.

Cannot spell even the simplest of words, doesn’t know the meaning of certain words and cannot use words in the right context.

I have to dictate emails to her she puts the gist of it into ChatGPT and that has to write her text for. I then need to recheck her emails to make sure that they make sense.

I’ve never seen anything like it! This is someone with a recent 2:1 degree!

How in God's name did she manage to pass her dissertation?

IdentityCris · 27/02/2026 08:22

It always irritates me when someone who is blatantly not dyslexic trots it out as an excuse if they are challenged about a gibberish post. It seems quite cynical, and unfair to genuine dyslexics.

IdentityCris · 27/02/2026 08:26

MoonshineSally · 27/02/2026 08:18

How in God's name did she manage to pass her dissertation?

To be fair, undergraduate degrees don't always involve dissertations.

However, I've recently started doing some work which requires me to check drafts produced by people most of who have at least A levels and many have degrees. I'm constantly surprised at just how much they seem to struggle to express themselves lucidly, and their lack of knowledge of basics like the correct usage of apostrophes, colons and semi colons. How on earth did they get through exams?

MagpiePi · 27/02/2026 08:27

bluescarf · 24/02/2026 14:04

OP you cant start a thread complaining about SPAG mistakes and get upset when your own errors are pointed out. Quite funny really.
My DD has a first class honours degree and she often makes spelling and grammar errors and she is dyslexic, not lazy and she worked hard at school.
Some people have different levels of processing problems. It’s not fair to call people out all the time on mistakes - if you get the gist then that’s fine!

It wasn’t an error though. I was using the word I wanted; ‘overwhelming’, as an adjective, and another poster was insistent that I should have used the adverb ‘overwhelmingly’.

OP posts:
MagpiePi · 27/02/2026 08:39

I suppose my point is that like other pp I can’t be bothered to read a post that is written as a stream of consciousness with no punctuation, random use of homonyms and multiple misspellings. I feel bad because often it is someone in a dire situation who deserves a hearing, but I really can’t be arsed to ‘bare’ with them and to try and decipher what is happening.

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ThePoshUns · 27/02/2026 09:05

Shall I point out where you have missed a few commas there?!🤣

staringatthesun · 27/02/2026 09:07

PleasantPedant · 23/02/2026 11:05

Did you mean Overwhelmingly poor SPAG, @MagpiePi ?

Edited

Perhaps they are overwhelmed by the frequent use of poor SPAG?

MoonshineSally · 28/02/2026 02:54

Does anyone no if the buses are running today

Iv asked my hubby and his going to have a look

Top bloke Bill was i used to go to there house after school

NE1 want scrap needs gone now

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