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“I was sat” 😤

120 replies

FeeFiFoFummy · 14/10/2025 23:58

Why do people no longer say “i was sitting”?

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BitOutOfPractice · 17/10/2025 12:44

It’s a a regional variation I think. Doesn’t bother me at all.

Missey85 · 17/10/2025 12:48

I'm from Australia and I've never heard it said that way

tartyflette · 17/10/2025 12:54

poshcrisps · 17/10/2025 12:37

As a Scot "haich" is very wrong.

It's usually spelt haitch, or aitch...
i don't think much about how I say/pronounce it but on reflection if someone asked me to spell 'high' I'd say 'aitch eye gee aitch'.
But in that context I think it would be also fine to say haitch, i think there definitely are regional differences at play.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 12:57

tartyflette · 17/10/2025 12:54

It's usually spelt haitch, or aitch...
i don't think much about how I say/pronounce it but on reflection if someone asked me to spell 'high' I'd say 'aitch eye gee aitch'.
But in that context I think it would be also fine to say haitch, i think there definitely are regional differences at play.

I thought it was spelled hatch but copied from the post I was replying to as I wasn't sure.

Strop · 17/10/2025 13:03

pigsDOfly · 16/10/2025 14:38

Is it colloquial to particular parts of UK, or is it widespread I wonder?

It's not just widespread in speech. Unfortunately it's also becoming widespread in a great many modern books, as is I was stood and several other similar horrors.

I disagree, I moved from Scotland to England and find it far more common down here.

I was also taught aitch as aitch in Scotland! Definitely not haitch.

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 13:26

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 12:32

Yes I know you did. “I was sat sitting there” Anyone old enough to remember Hilda Baker?

Yes. Was she the one who used to say "Be soon, I say, be soon"?

Mischance · 17/10/2025 13:30

Bluebay · 15/10/2025 00:42

Wouldn't it be correct if you were directed to the seat? For instance, misbehaving at school - "I was sat in the corner by the teacher".

NO!

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 13:39

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:33

I'm of an era where grammar was absorbed rather than explicitly taught so past continuous may not be the correct term. I'm loosely translating from the Irish "aimsir gnáthcháite" as we did learn Irish grammar. Aimsir = tense, gnáth = usual/customary but in this instance it means habitual or continuous and c(h)áite = past.

I'm English but I was never explicitly taught tenses in English. It was when I came to learn French and Latin that I read the English translations and cottoned on to the three persons singular and plural.
Nowadays I use words from here and there! I think I met the term 'past definite' from learning a bit of Italian, and if I said, "I had sat there for a long time" I'd be using what I call the pluperfect.

RitaIncognita · 17/10/2025 13:40

The oddest use of it to me is something along the lines of "He was sat on his phone."

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 13:43

RitaIncognita · 17/10/2025 13:40

The oddest use of it to me is something along the lines of "He was sat on his phone."

A bit dodgy if it was vibrating.

pigsDOfly · 17/10/2025 14:27

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 12:32

Yes I know you did. “I was sat sitting there” Anyone old enough to remember Hilda Baker?

Yes. Hilda Baker always springs to my mind when I hear someone say 'I was sat'.

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 15:42

pigsDOfly · 17/10/2025 14:27

Yes. Hilda Baker always springs to my mind when I hear someone say 'I was sat'.

Brilliant! Think it was when she was playing Nellie Pledge. Nearest and Dearest

thecatneuterer · 17/10/2025 16:47

BitOutOfPractice · 17/10/2025 12:44

It’s a a regional variation I think. Doesn’t bother me at all.

What region? It's universal but still incorrect everywhere.

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 18:16

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 12:32

Yes I know you did. “I was sat sitting there” Anyone old enough to remember Hilda Baker?

I remember Hylda Baker, I think from reruns of Our House.

BitOutOfPractice · 17/10/2025 19:29

thecatneuterer · 17/10/2025 16:47

What region? It's universal but still incorrect everywhere.

I think it’s northern England mostly. I don’t know. Just a feeling. Either way it doesn’t bother me. Many things do. Where I live it’s “we was…” that makes me furious. That’s an Essex / southern thing. Meh. I can’t get worked up about sat.

HoppityBun · 17/10/2025 19:34

BitOutOfPractice · 17/10/2025 19:29

I think it’s northern England mostly. I don’t know. Just a feeling. Either way it doesn’t bother me. Many things do. Where I live it’s “we was…” that makes me furious. That’s an Essex / southern thing. Meh. I can’t get worked up about sat.

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It’s here in the south too, with people from all levels of education plus, for many years, on tv and podcasts. It’s the media imv that account for the widespread usage. Ages since I’ve heard someone say “sitting”.

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 23:25

BitOutOfPractice · 17/10/2025 19:29

I think it’s northern England mostly. I don’t know. Just a feeling. Either way it doesn’t bother me. Many things do. Where I live it’s “we was…” that makes me furious. That’s an Essex / southern thing. Meh. I can’t get worked up about sat.

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I don't think 'we was' is only an Essex/southern thing. It's here in the east midlands and I know someone from the north-west who says it. Essex can't claim it!

Festivfrenzy · 17/10/2025 23:42

interesting - isn’t this just evolution of language and the adjective seated is gradually being replaced by sat? Or is it more that sitting should be used as an adjective? 🤔 Seated feels overly formal anyway
Agree re ‘We was’ though, and ‘I done’ etc - fume!!

RylanClarksTeeth · 18/10/2025 01:06

Festivfrenzy · 17/10/2025 23:42

interesting - isn’t this just evolution of language and the adjective seated is gradually being replaced by sat? Or is it more that sitting should be used as an adjective? 🤔 Seated feels overly formal anyway
Agree re ‘We was’ though, and ‘I done’ etc - fume!!

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Evolution, this old 🌰 🌰 🌰 🌰 again. No it's not evolution.

BitOutOfPractice · 18/10/2025 05:44

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 23:25

I don't think 'we was' is only an Essex/southern thing. It's here in the east midlands and I know someone from the north-west who says it. Essex can't claim it!

You’re welcome to it! 😁

spoonbillstretford · 18/10/2025 05:47

It's my Mancunian dialect and I prefer it to saying "I was sitting". It sounds so mimsy and passive. I was not sitting, I was sat there.

dailyconniptions · 18/10/2025 09:51

spoonbillstretford · 18/10/2025 05:47

It's my Mancunian dialect and I prefer it to saying "I was sitting". It sounds so mimsy and passive. I was not sitting, I was sat there.

Can't you just say 'I sat? ' Perfectly fine. The 'was' is the problem and sounds very irritating and stupid.

banivani · 18/10/2025 10:01

Surprises me to hear people getting worked up about it when people are speaking. It’s obviously a regional English thing (but it’s interesting that it’s spreading, at least to me it seems to be spreading). No more annoying than the intrusive R really, much less annoying than hypercorrected usage of ”Mary and I” as PP wrote. That said, I for some reason get super annoyed when people write ”I was sat”. 😂 I am nothing if not a hypocrite.

RylanClarksTeeth · 18/10/2025 10:06

spoonbillstretford · 18/10/2025 05:47

It's my Mancunian dialect and I prefer it to saying "I was sitting". It sounds so mimsy and passive. I was not sitting, I was sat there.

Only if someone picked you up and plonked you there.

spoonbillstretford · 18/10/2025 10:06

dailyconniptions · 18/10/2025 09:51

Can't you just say 'I sat? ' Perfectly fine. The 'was' is the problem and sounds very irritating and stupid.

Was adds more emphasis in some phrases.

I was sat there like Piffy on a rock bun.

It adds just the right amount of pissed-off ness.

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