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“I was sat” 😤

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FeeFiFoFummy · 14/10/2025 23:58

Why do people no longer say “i was sitting”?

OP posts:
FeeFiFoFummy · 17/10/2025 04:29

stichguru · 16/10/2025 17:41

They are both correct - "sat" is the simple past of the verb "to sit", while "sitting" is continuous. Technically therefore:

"I sit" (present - one single action being done now)
Becomes
"I sat" (past - one single action you did in the past)

"I am sitting" (present - but continuous - you are doing it continuously for some time)
"I was sitting" (past - but continuous - you are doing it continuously for some time)

If you are talking about the action of sitting down, it should be sat for one action.
"I was skipping, but I sat down for Mum to put my shoes on, so we could go outside"
If you are talking about a continuous action it should be sitting.
"I was sitting down while we had tea."

You explanations are correct.

but “I was sat” is 100% wrong.

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FeeFiFoFummy · 17/10/2025 04:32

Ihad2Strokes · 16/10/2025 21:54

Do You mean in here or in general?

if you mean on here it's because MN some how f'd it up & unlike *everywhere else it no longer happens automatically & especially after my stroke it's too difficult to go back & capitalise it.

I just ignored the poster who said this. I think they’re trying to be clever as in my OP the “I” isn’t capitalised. But it is obvious that it is an autocorrect failure.

Saying “I was sat” isn’t a typo or an autocorrect failure, it is poor grammar.

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RylanClarksTeeth · 17/10/2025 09:25

pigsDOfly · 16/10/2025 14:38

Is it colloquial to particular parts of UK, or is it widespread I wonder?

It's not just widespread in speech. Unfortunately it's also becoming widespread in a great many modern books, as is I was stood and several other similar horrors.

The Beatles didn't sing "I Saw Her Stood There" 😹

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 10:45

FeeFiFoFummy · 17/10/2025 04:26

I agree either way you. But on MN it is everywhere. Along with “me and DH were going…”

it is rife and really grates.

Edited

I don't think I've ever noticed me and dh went... That doesn't irritate me too much which is probably why I don't notice it.

What is insanely common is "she gave that to dh and I". That one drives me completely insane.

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:05

FeeFiFoFummy · 17/10/2025 04:32

I just ignored the poster who said this. I think they’re trying to be clever as in my OP the “I” isn’t capitalised. But it is obvious that it is an autocorrect failure.

Saying “I was sat” isn’t a typo or an autocorrect failure, it is poor grammar.

I know 'I sat' is technically incorrect, but to me it's more descriptive of the feeling sometimes. I think it's fine to use. Language changes. Look at some of the abominations that are now in the dictionary.

I was sat in the waiting room for an hour - conveys more annoyance than

i was sitting in the waiting room for an hour

🤷🏻‍♀️

thecatneuterer · 17/10/2025 11:05

It annoys me more than is reasonable. Particularly as I hear it even on Radio 4 -.all the bloody time. Radio 4! Nowhere is safe.

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 11:06

Unless someone placed you there, you were sitting.

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 11:09

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:05

I know 'I sat' is technically incorrect, but to me it's more descriptive of the feeling sometimes. I think it's fine to use. Language changes. Look at some of the abominations that are now in the dictionary.

I was sat in the waiting room for an hour - conveys more annoyance than

i was sitting in the waiting room for an hour

🤷🏻‍♀️

“I was sat” is and always has been grammatically incorrect.

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 11:09

OchonAgusOchonOh · 16/10/2025 21:18

Sitting is current unless it's preceded by was, in which case it becomes the past continuous.

At a time in my life when I was learning French and Latin I learned the imperfect tense, which I expect is a different name for what you call the past continuous: I was sitting or I used to sit, et cetera.

It's one of the several past tenses and I think we use it to talk about something we did in the past but over a period of time rather than just the once.

Well, I've been sitting here for quite long enough and there are post-elevenses errands to be done.

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:12

MidnightMeltdown · 16/10/2025 18:53

I don’t think that it’s regional. I’ve lived in various places in the north and the south, and you find people everywhere who speak like this. It’s the same sort of people who don’t understand the difference between ‘was’ and ‘were’. Most children learn grammar rules implicitly, so I assume that it’s a result of not having educated parents, or maybe not having books or being read to as a child.

'The same sort of people'

????

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:12

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 11:09

“I was sat” is and always has been grammatically incorrect.

Which is what I said.

Hullykel · 17/10/2025 11:21

Yes! I was arguing with my son about this a couple of weeks ago, so he went to ask his English teacher who said it was good grammar! Another one I hate is the pronunciation of the letter H as ‘Haich’.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:26

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:05

I know 'I sat' is technically incorrect, but to me it's more descriptive of the feeling sometimes. I think it's fine to use. Language changes. Look at some of the abominations that are now in the dictionary.

I was sat in the waiting room for an hour - conveys more annoyance than

i was sitting in the waiting room for an hour

🤷🏻‍♀️

You might have a point if people were only using it to indicate annoyance or frustration but they're not. They are using it purely as the past continuous so it conveys no more annoyance than I was sitting.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:33

upinaballoon · 17/10/2025 11:09

At a time in my life when I was learning French and Latin I learned the imperfect tense, which I expect is a different name for what you call the past continuous: I was sitting or I used to sit, et cetera.

It's one of the several past tenses and I think we use it to talk about something we did in the past but over a period of time rather than just the once.

Well, I've been sitting here for quite long enough and there are post-elevenses errands to be done.

I'm of an era where grammar was absorbed rather than explicitly taught so past continuous may not be the correct term. I'm loosely translating from the Irish "aimsir gnáthcháite" as we did learn Irish grammar. Aimsir = tense, gnáth = usual/customary but in this instance it means habitual or continuous and c(h)áite = past.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:34

Hullykel · 17/10/2025 11:21

Yes! I was arguing with my son about this a couple of weeks ago, so he went to ask his English teacher who said it was good grammar! Another one I hate is the pronunciation of the letter H as ‘Haich’.

Haich is the correct pronunciation in Hiberno English. I think that is also the case for Scottish English.

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:41

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:26

You might have a point if people were only using it to indicate annoyance or frustration but they're not. They are using it purely as the past continuous so it conveys no more annoyance than I was sitting.

🤷🏻‍♀️ well it's not something I say anyway, I just don't get bothered when others do.

now 'we was' on the other hand makes me quite murderous & a close friend says it all the time. He's beyond help!

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 12:02

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:41

🤷🏻‍♀️ well it's not something I say anyway, I just don't get bothered when others do.

now 'we was' on the other hand makes me quite murderous & a close friend says it all the time. He's beyond help!

We all have our pet peeves. The incorrect use of "Mary and I" drives me insane whereas the incorrect use of "Mary and me" doesn't particularly bother me.

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 12:32

Ihad2Strokes · 17/10/2025 11:12

Which is what I said.

Yes I know you did. “I was sat sitting there” Anyone old enough to remember Hilda Baker?

poshcrisps · 17/10/2025 12:34

Bluebay · 15/10/2025 00:42

Wouldn't it be correct if you were directed to the seat? For instance, misbehaving at school - "I was sat in the corner by the teacher".

yes, but people don't use it like that

Words · 17/10/2025 12:35

I hate this. I sat or I was sitting. Never, ever I was sat.

The BBC's younger reporters regularly make this error.

poshcrisps · 17/10/2025 12:36

People say "I was laying in the bed" too. Drives me nuts.

When they say "I was laid in bed" I think that I don't want that much information :)

poshcrisps · 17/10/2025 12:37

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 11:34

Haich is the correct pronunciation in Hiberno English. I think that is also the case for Scottish English.

As a Scot "haich" is very wrong.

Hollyhobbi · 17/10/2025 12:39

I think it’s more of a UK thing? Don’t really hear it here in Ireland but it drives me batty🤣. Along with I brang it, instead of I brought it!

bungobungobungo · 17/10/2025 12:39

Hate this too! I watch ‘A Place in the Sun’ and invariably the presenters phone the estate agents and say “I’m sat here with Bob and Ted” or whatever. I always shout at the tv!

OchonAgusOchonOh · 17/10/2025 12:43

poshcrisps · 17/10/2025 12:37

As a Scot "haich" is very wrong.

Is it? I thought I saw on here that is was correct in Scottish English but I'm obviously mistaken.

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