As that's what they're implying when they write this! I read on another thread that someone is not aloud out by their partner and they're defiantly going to finish with them.
I think it's a bit mean to comment in those threads about bad grammar, though it seems people who write this, and a lot do, don't understand construction of words which to me seems obvious.
If you asked them to spell the word allow I bet they'd get that right, so why aloud?
I also don't understand why finishing the relationship is defying the partner either ...