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Can't bear the bare

39 replies

quisensoucie · 13/02/2024 06:38

As I age, my tolerance for mny things diminishes. My reserve tolereance tank, in relation to knowing the difference between bare and bear, is empty!
So many people cannot 'bare this/that/him, etc'
Even accounting for varying educational attainment, surely context aids comprehension so the correct spelling is used??

OP posts:
EverySporkIsSacred · 13/02/2024 09:04

I hate the mistaken bare for bear. To me it seems obvious - we say unbearable. If it were unbareable you would be unable to get clothes off it...no?

SnakesAndArrows · 13/02/2024 09:22

JuneSoon · 13/02/2024 07:15

So please 'bare' with those who get it wrong....

My boss gets it wrong on a daily basis. Think it would be a kindness to point it out or will they take offence?

And when is it offense?

Only when you’re in the USA, I think.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2024 09:32

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 13/02/2024 08:39

I never know which of the bare/bear to use in this context, so rarely use it in a (written) sentence. I guarantee that even after reading this thread that I won’t remember the correct word, I just have a mental block with it.

Is there a ditty or similar as a way of remembering?

It's the meaning similar to "bearing a load", "having a cross to bear" - something to be born.

BobbinThreadbare123 · 13/02/2024 09:36

Borne

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2024 09:44

BobbinThreadbare123 · 13/02/2024 09:36

Borne

I'm pretty sure either is ok.

Sugarpuffy · 13/02/2024 09:55

One of my favourites was on a thread about US gun laws and their right to bare arms 🤣

BobbinThreadbare123 · 13/02/2024 10:00

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2024 09:44

I'm pretty sure either is ok.

Cambridge dictionary says it's borne if it pertains to a load, metaphorical or physical.

Blueberrycreampie · 13/02/2024 10:04

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 13/02/2024 08:39

I never know which of the bare/bear to use in this context, so rarely use it in a (written) sentence. I guarantee that even after reading this thread that I won’t remember the correct word, I just have a mental block with it.

Is there a ditty or similar as a way of remembering?

I would just imagine a huge bear sitting alongside you when using 'bear with me' etc. No ect here!

happyinherts · 13/02/2024 10:05

It's could of, or should of, which tends to irritate me.

Surely there have been enough posts on this for people to learn. It's could have, should have, etc.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2024 10:10

Cambridge dictionary says it's borne if it pertains to a load, metaphorical or physical.

Others allow either.

JL690 · 13/02/2024 10:11

Absolutely, its very much so when someone rights definately! that I cant bare it at all.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 13/02/2024 10:52

ErrolTheDragon · 13/02/2024 09:32

It's the meaning similar to "bearing a load", "having a cross to bear" - something to be born.

Maybe I’ll try and remember it as bearing a child - that was something to be borne for sure, quite the load. I’ll try and envisage the hairy bear too. Fingers crossed I get over the hurdle that means I can use it! Thanks.

Bluevelvetsofa · 13/02/2024 15:58

Boarder and border.

So many people appear to put a boarder on something, particularly when talking about crafting. I have visions of blankets going to a boarding school.

upinaballoon · 13/02/2024 22:45

Kelly51 · 13/02/2024 08:58

@Oneearringlost
I have noticed a huge increase in we was; rather than we were.
Another annoyance; I borrowed him money! You loaned him money.

In the area where I live 'we was' is more or less part of the dialect. It annoys me but that's how it is. So I am used to hearing it from local people and people who perhaps have not had heaps of education, but it's become a nasty trend among people whom(?) I would expect to know better. I'm talking about presenters and MPs etc.

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