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Weird new use of 'to' that's popping up everywhere

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GreenTeaPingPong · 05/08/2021 18:34

Have any other word nerds noticed this? I keep seeing it written in online news but can't find an example just now, but what reminded me is this quote in a MN thread today:
Is it actually fair to say they have a preference to skin colour/ethnicity?

It might have crept in from US English, but I find it quite irritating! Please someone give me another example.

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PointersPlease · 05/08/2021 18:40

Is it related to being excited "for" something?

NotThisWeekSatan · 05/08/2021 18:42

It’s being used like ‘as to’ isn’t it? I haven’t noticed it but it would annoy me too!

HeronLanyon · 05/08/2021 18:42

Oh I haven’t noticed this. Will this be another rage inducing ‘thing’ ? Sounds odd.

Warmduscher · 05/08/2021 18:44

@PointersPlease

Is it related to being excited "for" something?
I hate that one too!
Pallisers · 05/08/2021 18:49

I'm in the US and I haven't seen this. My american kids do say "I'm excited for" and it drives me crazy.

GreenTeaPingPong · 05/08/2021 18:49

@NotThisWeekSatan

It’s being used like ‘as to’ isn’t it? I haven’t noticed it but it would annoy me too!
In this example it's being used instead of 'as to' but it's also being used to replace other prepositions in other places. Sorry, I wish I could find another example! I'll come back on here and post one when I next see it!
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Moiraroseswigs · 05/08/2021 19:04

I don't know if this is an example of what you mean OP but I've noticed "speak to" creep in as corporate jargon but used to reference speaking about a topic rather than speaking to a person. For example, if I'm being introduced at a meeting "This is Moira, she will speak to the new project". It really grates on me.

kennythekangaroo · 05/08/2021 19:14

I have an issue with the opposite - here in Devon people drop the word "to" or "to the" eg "I'm going park" or "We're going Tesco". It's always been something I have noticed locally but DD has started doing it and it is really grating on me.

HeronLanyon · 05/08/2021 19:17

moira yes I agree. It la kind of linked to when ‘issues around’ crept in. Both seem to spring from a reluctance to use good old ‘about’ (in those examples, not all).

Choice4567 · 05/08/2021 19:25

Can someone give an example of ‘I’m excited for’ in a sentence because I can’t see what’s wrong with it?

loveisagirlnameddaisy · 05/08/2021 19:26

I'm excited for my birthday party this weekend

loveisagirlnameddaisy · 05/08/2021 19:27

Instead of I'm excited about my birthday party this weekend

SenecaFallsRedux · 05/08/2021 20:53

@Pallisers

I'm in the US and I haven't seen this. My american kids do say "I'm excited for" and it drives me crazy.
Same for me. I haven't heard this use of "to" in the US.
NewlyGranny · 05/08/2021 20:58

In Cornwall we use to a lot, as in "Where's that to?" for a lost pen or directions to a new shop, or "Where are you to?" if on the phone and checking the progress one of the numerous family members coming down for a free holiday. ☺️

It tickled me when I came to live here but now I do it myself.

ShowOfHands · 05/08/2021 21:02

Oh "excited for" drives me crackers.

DiamondBright · 06/08/2021 03:48

Another one creeping in from US you tubers is "a thing of .." instead of a packet/box/tube/bag/carton of ....

"Exited for" drives me crackers.

DD says "a bunch of ... which also grates.

GreenTeaPingPong · 08/08/2021 00:11

@Moiraroseswigs

I don't know if this is an example of what you mean OP but I've noticed "speak to" creep in as corporate jargon but used to reference speaking about a topic rather than speaking to a person. For example, if I'm being introduced at a meeting "This is Moira, she will speak to the new project". It really grates on me.
Yes, that's it! Thank you. And HeronLanyon yes, I really hate 'issues around' and it is quite similar.
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MuggleStudiesResearchProject · 08/08/2021 00:20

The past two weeks have been filled with people "speaking to" subjects, when I don't think I've ever noticed it occurring before. It seems to have exploded into my world, and I'm not enjoying it at all. It sounds ridiculous. Why the sudden increase in prevalence?

GreenTeaPingPong · 09/08/2021 00:15

Thank you Muggle, for confirmation that I'm not imagining it!

I think I've only heard it prior to this year in the context of literature/arts, where it makes a bit more sense. The play speaks to society's fears and paranoia.

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Snoopsnoggysnog · 09/08/2021 07:51

@kennythekangaroo

I have an issue with the opposite - here in Devon people drop the word "to" or "to the" eg "I'm going park" or "We're going Tesco". It's always been something I have noticed locally but DD has started doing it and it is really grating on me.
I’m in north London and it’s a thing here too. Drives me crazy. My DD’s school corrects them if they hear them saying it.
MuggleStudiesResearchProject · 09/08/2021 10:50

I spoke to this with my husband after a zoom that included a Q&A panel that went something like this:-
Person one. Asks question then, "Would anyone like to speak to that?"
Person two, the Chair of the discussion, "I can think of several members of the panel who might want to speak to that..."
Person three, "Yes, I'll speak to that."
I nearly exploded.

My husband says that in his workplace it had a phase six months or so ago, but has now faded away. So let's hope this new wave of social contagion dies out quickly too.

Musmerian · 09/08/2021 11:16

I used to find relatable really annoying and tell my students not to use it in essays but it’s mainstream now. I think we have to accept both regional variations and ever changing language- it’s nothing new.

myotherusernameistaken · 09/08/2021 12:40

See also: embarrassed of.

DiamondBright · 09/08/2021 16:03

I work in the public sector we've been "speaking to" agenda items for at least the 20 years I've been there.

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