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Mummy/MummyMommies/Mummies

42 replies

JollyGolightly · 07/04/2014 22:06

Am I missing something? I'm seeing "Mommy" everywhere, where "Mummy" ought to be, in places like; "First time Mommies" and "Puppy Mommies".

I thought that "Mummies" was British English, and "Mommies" American.

Perhaps ""Mommies" is more correct in its graphological relationship to "Mothers". Maybe it doesn't matter, but it's causing me a certain amount of pain.

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helterskelter99 · 07/04/2014 22:09

Mommy is midlands as well as American apparently according to OH

MrsBungle · 07/04/2014 22:12

It causes me pain too. I also thought it was American although have heard some people say certain counties in England write it as mom. I only know one person who does though and I reckon she's just twee

JollyGolightly · 07/04/2014 22:26

That's interesting, Helter. I've only seen it on forums, never in RL.

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Lesleythegiraffe · 08/04/2014 20:14

I've always thought that Mom and Mommy were the American equivalent of Mum/Mummy.

Where I live we say Mam instead of Mum, but never Mammy

Thesimplethings · 08/04/2014 20:15

I'm mammy Grin

lessonsintightropes · 08/04/2014 20:20

Mammy's Irish. Mam is northern (but not universal). Mom is usually American but sometimes Staffordshire and around (friend from Cannock describes herself thus). Mum, normal UK standard. Ma, think they're posh. Mummy = actually is posh when used by an adult to refer to her own mother.

HTH

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Youdontneedacriminallawyer · 08/04/2014 20:22

Mam/Mammy is Welsh too. I hate Mom/Mommy. Nasty Americanism.

lessonsintightropes · 08/04/2014 20:23

I've never heard a Welsh person refer to their 'Mam/Mammy'.

gallicgirl · 08/04/2014 20:26

Mom for me from the Midlands.
Probably wouldn't write mom but that's how it's pronounced.

Youdontneedacriminallawyer · 08/04/2014 20:26

Everyone is Mam in my part of Wales

PandasAreStupid · 08/04/2014 20:26

When I lived in the West Midlands, all my friends had a Mom!

SunnyRandall · 08/04/2014 20:28

I have a mom. I am a mom. West mids.

stargirl1701 · 08/04/2014 20:29

I am a Mama Grin

StrawberryMojito · 08/04/2014 20:34

Mom/mommy is West Midlands. I hate it, I am mummy!

JollyGolightly · 08/04/2014 22:07

I wondered if the American usage might be a remnant of pilgrim fathers' home dialects but have no idea how many of them were from the midlands!

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SconeRhymesWithGone · 08/04/2014 23:32

Here is one take on it; that they are all just essentially the same word.

dialectblog.com/2011/04/07/mom-mum-mam/

JessieMcJessie · 09/04/2014 01:57

"Maw" in Scotland. Which is very close to the Scandinavian "Mor"ï¼? which eagle-eared Bridge/Borgen/Killing fans may have noticed.

RafaellaNhaKyria · 09/04/2014 02:18

I hate Mom/Mommy. Nasty Americanism.

Did you mean to be so rude?

PolytheneGirl · 09/04/2014 02:53

Also a West-Mids Mommy here. I like it!

georgie22 · 09/04/2014 02:55

Mommy here and I have a mom. West Midlands too.

nooka · 09/04/2014 03:38

I'm Mum (dcs have mostly grown out of Mummy) and my mother is Mama.

Hate Mummies/Mommies I am not 'a' mum, or one of a group of 'mummies'. Makes me wince.

dd once got very upset on having a 'I love you Mummy' school card/gift corrected to Mommy (we move to Canada a few years ago) I agreed with her, what a small child calls their parents should be totally up to them.

Youdontneedacriminallawyer · 10/04/2014 21:20

Sorry Rafaella. It's the Americanism that's nasty. not Americans. They have their ways, we have ours. Vive la difference.

kaymondo · 10/04/2014 21:32

I have a mom and I'm from the West Midlands but dc call me mummy because that's how dh pronounces it ( from north west).

So not always a 'nasty Americanism' and why does it matter? Don't get where the mum/ mom snobbery come from.

cariadmawr · 10/04/2014 21:39

West wales I'm mammy to youngest Mam to oldest as he's.adult changed when he was about 11 .

SconeRhymesWithGone · 10/04/2014 22:08

Well, our language is very much a part of who we are so "nasty" coupled with "Americanism" is not a very nice thing to read when you are American.

It is very hard to see how the word "mom" is nasty.