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All three emergency services called to DS's party (thank god no children were hurt)! Long sorry but need to vent...

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Flyonthewindscreen · 19/01/2009 14:14

Still can't believe it happened.

My DS and his friends were happily playing in the laserquest arena (DH was with them) and myself, DD (4), a few parents who had decided to stay, a 2 year old younger sibling and one of DS's friends who had decided he didn't want to play were waiting in the front foyer area of the venue.

Suddenly a huge 4x4 reversed right up against the window, stopped for a second, then reversed at speed through the window and ploughed into an air hockey table before stopping, glass flying everywhere.

I grabbed DD, my friend grabbed the other DCs and the staff hurried us into a back room. My immediate thought was that it was a ram raid but after a short while it emerged that it was an "accident". The driver (woman in 60s on her own in huge 4x4 in city but that is another debate) had accidentally put her car (an automatic) into reverse instead of drive, than accidentally put her foot on accelerate instead of brake. She was in shock and taken to hospital, police arrived to investigate and a fire engine to retrieve the car. Its a miracle no one else was hurt. An hour before the foyer was filled with DS, all his friends and their parents and siblings who were dropping off.

The staff gave the boys another laser game to keep them out of the way (they were at the back of the building and oblivious to what was going on) and I was trying to think straight about what to do. I texted some parents to tell them not to panic when they got back to pick up as none of the DCs were involved in the accident scene but had no way of contacting some others. Note for future parties, always get a mobile number.

The party should have been finishing by now so we whisked the boys though party tea, cake and party bags in about 10 minutes flat, the party finished about 20 minutes late and everyone was shown out though a back entrance to avoid glass and debris. DS and his friends all seemed to have enjoyed themselves. Unfortunately I could not say the same for his classmate who had been too nervous to play the laser game and then had to witness the whole car though window incident.

I could not sleep that night thinking about what could have happened if the timing of the crash had been slightly different or if any of us present had been in a slightly different position in the room at the time. Since then I've been really angry with the driver and wish I had taken the chance to give her a piece of my mind .

The whole story made the front of the local paper and I was just looking at the online version and found a quote from the headteacher of DS and DD's school (all the yr 2 boys were there) saying that he had heard a child "twisted their ankle because they were so scared". Really at him. No child thankfully was hurt and if the head was going to give quotes to the local press he could have asked me for an accurate account.

End of rant and to think last time I posted on this topic I was fussing about guest lists

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thesockmonsterofdoom · 19/01/2009 14:17

OMG

brimfull · 19/01/2009 14:20

blimey

I would challenge the head about his quote

Flyonthewindscreen · 19/01/2009 14:27

I posted on the newspaper website in the comments section under the story straight away to say no children had been hurt and to vent about the driver, etc. But am not sure whether to talk to the head or to let it go. Will ask DH later what he thinks

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Flyonthewindscreen · 19/01/2009 19:53

Just checked the local paper website and the quote from the head has been removed following my comment so I can let it lie

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sameagain · 19/01/2009 20:15

It was an accident and no-one was hurt = happy ending. Very distressing at the time I'm sure, but sounds like the play centre dealt with it well. Not sure what you're so furious about?

Geepers · 19/01/2009 20:17

What on earth would giving her a piece of your mind have achieved? It was an accident, and I am sure the lady is just as upset as you are. No-one was hurt, stop the 'what ifs' and be thankful for what you have.

FAQtothefuture · 19/01/2009 20:20

Sounds awful.

But I'd be more cross about the misquote (or perhaps quote that he did give but was inaccurate) that the poor womans accident.

dietstartstomorrow · 19/01/2009 20:24

oh god - thank god they were all ok.

unfitmother · 19/01/2009 20:27

Thank goodness you're all OK

Hulababy · 19/01/2009 20:31

Sounds dreadful Glad everyone was okay though and noone hurt.

I agree - can't see any point in giving the woman a piece of your mind. It was an accident, albeit and avoidable one. I assume she is probably full of remorse, very shocked and knows exactly wht could have happened. I am sure the police will have taken details and will deal with the situation how they feel is most suitable.

I would be more cross regards the head teacher's quote.

FfreckleFface · 19/01/2009 20:52

Sounds horrible, glad that everyone was ok.

Not quite sure what you thought you would achieve by having a go at the driver though. Haven't you ever had an ACCIDENT?
And I drive my 4x4 when I am in city centres too. We need a big car because we have two very large dogs, and can't afford to run two cars, so, alas, I don't have a smaller and more economical car for driving in town.

FimbleHobbs · 20/01/2009 11:34

Glad you are all ok.

I understand your anger towards the driver but if it was an accident I am sure she will be feeling terrible anyway - and if she was at fault in any way (like disqualified/drunk/etc) the police will be taking action so please don't beat yourself up for not saying anything to her. The last thing the children needed on top of all that was to see you ranting and raving - you did the right thing.

ICantFindAFreeNickName · 20/01/2009 11:42

Glad you are all O.K.
Your son will remember the party for years to come, just make sure you keep a copy of the newspaper article for him.
I would be annoyed with the Heads quite too, although he may not actually have said it - people are sometimes misquoted.

Flyonthewindscreen · 20/01/2009 20:33

I know it was an accident and that it was a very lucky escape for which I am very grateful. Also I don't really wish I had had a go at the driver (I am not a ranting and raving sort of person and anyway it was more important to comfort the frightened children I had with me). I do think I am allowed to feel angry at someone that could have killed mine and other people's DCs though.

I posted to vent and to avoid boring friends/family in RL going on about it. Have vented now so will put it behind me. DD is having a craft party at home tomorrow so had better start making jam sandwiches, etc...

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