Before anyone says I don't mean to sound like I'm whinging or making this about me, but at the same time I can't help but feel sad and hurt and put out by it. So basically, it was my Grandad's 90th birthday party arranged by my Mum and sister. I almost didn't make it because I wasn't feeling so well, and so I said that I would go and see him on his own instead, as I certainly wouldn't have neglected him! Anyway, my sister was pleading with me to go and saying how lovely the photos are and guilt tripping me...so I went for a bit, and was glad I did for my Grandad. However, amongst the "lovely" photos, there wasn't a single one of me but of everyone else. It feels like I've never existed, and like I've never shared any moments as a part of my Grandad's life. Why did my sister make a point of saying to me about these photos when I'm not even in any?? I feel sad about it. And I know I'm going to get responses about how lame I'm being, but I just wanted to offload.