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90th bday present for 90 yr old female

7 replies

wondabar · 06/04/2024 17:34

Our lovely neighbour is turning 90. I
Would like to give her a gift. She is a bit down as her DH has just gone into a nursing home and her children live abroad so won't be joining her on the day. A friend of hers is taking her out for dinner in the evening. My budget is up to £30. I'd be grateful for any suggestions.

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gimmegimmegimmeagin · 06/04/2024 17:38

M&S do an afternoon tea that is delivered. Or maybe a local garden centre voucher

DBD1975 · 06/04/2024 19:00

I would just take her out for afternoon tea. Your time and attention will mean more than any gift.

Tempnamechng · 06/04/2024 19:07

Taking her for an afternoon tea is a nice idea.
My similar age grandmother likes her perfumes - Estee Lauder Youth Dew is one she loves, and you might be able to get it in budget if you can get a deal. It depends what your neighbour's sense of smell is at that age.
Also, something like a lightweight scarf; my grandma will still wear one through spring to "brighten herself up".

MaMisled · 06/04/2024 19:25

Afternoon tea may be a bit too close to her evening dinner so about brunch or lunch at a nice garden centre. Agree your time and company will be a great present.

BeaRF75 · 06/04/2024 19:32

As always with these threads, her age is not the most important fact. What are her interests? If she loves books, a simple book token is fine (and if she needs help, take her to the bookshop to spend it). If she enjoys a nightly tipple, a decent bottle of gin or Scotch.
If she likes classical music, take her to a local concert, if there are any.
Etcetera, etcetera.
I'm not yet 90, but if anyone ever thinks that I'd like a trip to a garden centre for any reason, they'd get a polite "no, thanks".
People don't stop being people (with a huge range of tastes and interests) just because they're getting on in years.

TheSandgroper · 27/04/2024 13:02

A bunch of helium balloons has gone down well a few times here. Cheerful and last for a while.

Or, thinking a bit here, can you ask the nursing home if you can do a pretty morning or afternoon tea there? BYO everything, of course, but it would be lovely if DH could be there. A few local people, a few cakes. I dare say the thought and trouble with be deeply appreciated.

CadyEastman · 06/05/2024 09:52

Or, thinking a bit here, can you ask the nursing home if you can do a pretty morning or afternoon tea there? BYO everything, of course, but it would be lovely if DH could be there. I think that one might depend on why her DH is in the home. If he's got Dementia he might not even recognise her let alone be able to cope with a little party.

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