Well, the scenario is this. DD turned one recently and only received a birthday card from her only uncle. Now do we do the same for her cousin (his son) who turns one in the summer? Yes, I'll admit that it's petty to think this way but for a fairly close but small family who is not at all poverty stricken, I'm a little peeved that she didn't even merit a token £5 present especially when said uncle is whingeing about having to pay half a million for a house. Suffice to say, I don't sympathise. He's a bit tight although he has no problem requesting pricey presents from others. Opinions please. BTW, I've been taking the moral high ground up to now but being a bloke, he's too thick headed to notice!