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Parties/celebrations

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Adult birthday party with friends who don't know each other

5 replies

Banana7 · 29/10/2022 23:22

I haven't celebrated "properly" a birthday for at least 15 years. I feel like it now, after a tough two years of my life. I want to celebrate, to mark the occasion.

My best friends live far, it would be a logistics exercise to have them round. I don't want the stress.

I've got good friends nearby but it's taken me years to actually call them friends and be confident they feel the same towards me. They're the ones I've invited to my birthday. The issue is that they really don't know each other :they may have met briefly at kids birthdays or something but that's it.

There will be 6 of us at my birthday, which will take place in a restaurant /bar which has a dance floor later on in the evening.

Just wondering what I could do to "break the ice" so everyone can enjoy the night?

I know they're all going to be civil towards each other but I want them to actually enjoy themselves.

I'm planning for two of them to meet beforehand in a different setting but I don't have enough time before my birthday to make sure everyone meets each other.

OP posts:
britneyisfree · 29/10/2022 23:30

Bumping this for you op as might be in the same position in a few months!

Changingplace · 29/10/2022 23:34

Don’t worry about it too much!

I’m always of the opinion that if I’m friends with people, then they’re pretty likely to get on by default :)

Keep it all chilled and informal and I’m sure everyone will have a lovely time, hope you have a great birthday!

MovingOnUpp · 30/10/2022 21:37

Honestly my plan would be to involve alcohol. I think there’s more chance of you all having a fun night if they don’t drive and you are generous with drinks.
I’m sure they will want you to have the best evening so will make an effort with each other.

mondler · 31/10/2022 22:48

I went to a birthday meal of someone recently where I only knew her from our kids having playdates and no one else. I was a bit anxious but it just flowed really well. Everyone was relaxed and just chatted away to each other and it was a great night. Just introduce everyone to each other and I'm sure the rest will happen naturally. They will all want you to have a lovely birthday x

belxbel · 06/11/2022 13:47

I'd say no worries. Just let them mingle. i have single friends that didn't know each other, they met at my party, got hitched

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