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Help 7 year old boys party

10 replies

ERo87 · 04/02/2022 17:21

My boy is coming up to seven. Not sure on what to do. He was going to have his first party and invite friends from school in 2020... Obviously that didnt happen. We don't have friends with kids outside of school and that he socialises with. Not really spoke to many other parents at school! Totally out of comfort zone but want him to mix more and invite a few friends over but not sure if soft play barns are still ok? Thought about house but worry about the steps and have a big pond!

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BunnyRuddington · 06/02/2022 18:39

How about inviting the whole class to a swimming party? DS had one at about that age abs loved it.

AnneButNotHathaway · 07/02/2022 09:21

I like Bunny's suggestion, and it shouldn't be uncomfortable emotionally if you don't know everyone that well. This is actually fine and the invitation to the party has nothing to do with you not really knowing the parents.
There are lots of outdoor activites- partywizz.com/blog/family/outdoor-birthday-party-ideas/ as well and the only indoor thing could be the cake time. You can play a birthday slideshow during it so that the children wouldn't be tempted to go explore the house.

Thewindwhispers · 07/02/2022 09:51

Not swimming party!! Those requir parental involvement because so many non-swimmers at that age and many parents will decline the invite because they can’t be botherd with the extra hassle.

Options that work well:

  1. Have him choose the 4-5 people he likes best, reach out to their mums to ask when they can come for mini party, then donit st your house with loads of fun games and lucky dip presents etc.
  1. Hire a village hall, put a bouncy castle in it with slide (to keep them moving through it), 1stchpiceinflatables are good, and have some craft activities at the side like colouring in sheets, face painting, or anything from Baker Ross. Invite whole class and feed em sugar.
  1. Hire a vilage hall plus an entertainer like exotic animal guy / nerf guns / magic show / sport party. Invite half the class. This option is easiest but often not as fun as the others and it gets political about who to invite (ans too expensive to do while class).
  1. Soft play centre party. Works well if you have one. We used to have 5 within 30 min driving distance but covid closed them all.
Thewindwhispers · 07/02/2022 09:52

Can’t type 🤦‍♀️ Meant to say 1stchoiceinflatables are good, we’ve used them a few times.

mdh2020 · 07/02/2022 09:55

I second the animal guy - this is always popular.

trumpisagit · 07/02/2022 09:57

Soft play or bouncy castle in village hall would be great.
Or have at home with 5 friends (depends how much space you have and how precious you are about mess).
Or 5 friends at the park, football, and picnic - can make a lovely party and not too expensive.

IggyAce · 07/02/2022 10:01

If you want to invite the whole class hire a village hall or community centre and a bouncy castle or disco. Food keep it simple pizza and hot dogs with cakes and biscuits. Party bags slice of cake and a book.

scandikate · 07/02/2022 10:21

If whole class I would agree, village hall and entertainer. This would be good as you could get to know some parents, see who your child plays with and no one is excluded. If he wants a smaller one I would ask on your local Facebook group for suggestions. My ds (6) has been to all sorts of parties: trampolining, forest school, football, gaming, gymnastics, farm... pretty much everywhere holds parties nowadays!

HalfShrunkMoreToGo · 07/02/2022 10:33

They're pretty good at self entertaining at that age as mainly they just want to run around, make lots of noise and eat junk.

2hrs is the max, after that they're done.

I like to do an over lunch time slot so 11-1 works well, that way you can use some of the time giving them food and they'll be ready to eat it.

Leisure centres sometimes have sports halls they rent out with soft play stuff which are reasonably priced.

Last year for DDs 7th birthday we did a small garden party as we werejust in that inbetween place where groups were allowed but only outside.

We had the big garden games like Jenga set up, a piñata hung from the tree, a big box of brightly coloured chalks and chalk bombs that they throw and it splats on the ground, water pistols, stuff like that. We warned parents in advance to not send the kids in nice clothes and to expect them home tired and grubby.

We had kids music on so they could dance about.

For food we did pizza, chips, some fruit and veg (mainly for show, let's face it kids don't voluntarily pick the veg when there's chips about!). Then for pudding we did make your own sundaes, big tub of Neapolitan icecream and then a selection of sweets, chocolate, marshmallows, sprinkles and sauces.

An hour of running about like crazy things, 20-30 mins to eat, 5 mins for singing and cake then 20-25 minutes for them to finish off playing while we cut the cake and added it to the party bags before parents arrived to pick them up.

Party bags were

  • whatever sweets they grabbed from the piñata, a slice of cake, a toy they picked from a bowl (selection of stuff we'd found on sale, in the Works or in a pound shop, no individual item was more than £1, stuff like Lego mini figures, balls, colour your own tote bag...)
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