My dd is at nursery and has the most wonderful kiddies in her class. It is our first xmas away from our family, and so I've decided to do an xmas party for all the kiddies so that their parents can get the pressies wrapped unnoticed, and to make Christmas super special for my dd.
However, there is one mum at the nursery who has an adorable little girl, but she is a nightmare. She enrolled her child in the nursery after I had mentioned it (we are at the same university), ensured that her dd was placed in my dd's group, and then kept asking if "You could perhaps pick dd up when you get yours, as I am SO snowed under", "do you mind having her overnight" etc-we are both single parents doing the same subject so are both as snowed as the other. I refused each time and she now blanks me unless she needs a favour and I am now worried that she will not pick dd up after the party has finished, as it has been known to happen before. Do I not invite the child, or run the risk of having two for the whole of xmas? I don't want her to be the only one that isn't invited, because it's not the kiddie's fault, argh!